「这是一个国外的老师给我的人生哲理」

Hi Hana!
When I was younger, I wasn't sure what I was doing with my life .
I thought things were 'pointless'
With time I've learned to find meaning in the things that I do and love.
My life is very meaningful - > to me ^^.
Maybe others disagree, but I learned not to care what other people think. (that also takes time)
People try to bring others down, because it's easier to judge other people, rather than yourself.
I believe certain things like: "The most important thing in life is to be happy"
But sometimes people confuse "happiness with pleasure"
Pleasure comes from material things like-> drinking a beer, eating cake
Happiness comes from inside - > so I do things that make me feel good inside
That to me is living a meaningful life
Planning 'how to' live a meaningful life, will rarely work XD Life is unexpected
I'll give you an example of what makes my life meaningful: 1) Doing my best at work (without letting people take advantage of me). Never work for free.
2) Caring for my family and friends (make time for the ones you love)
3) Dedicating time to things I love: maruma and music
4) Having a hobby I'm passionate about and doing it!! (I don't care if I'm not good at it. There is freedom in knowing you don't have to turn it into a job .) For me, art is passion. Art is freedom! Art is not my job. I don't do it to please anyone. Art is for me. If others like it, great! If not, still great! Because I like it :)
There are other things , of course. Like 'liking' your job.
I spend 8 hours at work +2 to commute. If you don't love your job, it may be harder than if you do.
I'm lucky to have found work doing something I'm good at, and like!
Being young is difficult. I think it gets easier the older you get.
嗨,hana!
当我年轻的时候,我不知道我在做什么。我以为事情“毫无意义”。
随着时间的推移,我学会了在我所做的和喜欢的事情中找到意义。
我的生活对我很有意义。
也许别人不同意,但我学会了不在乎别人怎么想。(这也需要时间)
人们试图贬低别人,因为评判别人比评判自己更容易。
我相信某些事情,比如:“生活中最重要的是快乐”
但有时人们会混淆“快乐与幸福”
快乐来自物质生活,比如喝啤酒,吃蛋糕
幸福来自内心->所以我做一些让我内心感觉良好的事情
对我来说就是过有意义的生活
计划“如何”过一个有意义的生活,很少会工作XD生活是意想不到的
我给你举一个例子来说明我的生活有意义:
1)在工作中做到最好(不要让别人占我的便宜)。
2)永远不要免费工作。
2) 照顾我的家人和朋友(为你爱的人腾出时间)
3) 把时间花在我喜欢的事情上:maruma和音乐
4) 有一个我热爱的业余爱好并且做它!!)我不管自己是不是不擅长。
对我来说,艺术就是激情。艺术就是自由!艺术不是我的工作。
我这样做不是为了取悦任何人。
艺术是给我的。
如果其他人喜欢,太好了!如果不是,还是太好了!因为我喜欢它:)
当然还有其他的事情。喜欢你的工作。
我花了8个小时工作加上2个小时上下班。
如果你不爱你的工作,它可能比你爱你的工作更难。
我很幸运能找到一份我擅长的工作,而且喜欢!
年轻是困难的。我觉得年纪越大就越容易!
感谢老师给我的人生建议,我祝福您。