原来那个年代的爱情那么的纯粹-英国老夫妻谈论他们的爱情 雅思口语素材 (英国篇)

▌口语积累 | 婚姻 | 婚礼 | 人生

▷ What is the secret to keeping such a long-term loving relationship?

• You've got to be realistic. When you say loving relationship, it's not loving every moment of every day.

• My philosophy in life is I don't look forward to anything in particular, like my wife's birthday, Valentine's Day, weding anniversaries. They're not important becausd we celebrate every day. So those days are just the same as every other day.

• You just make the best of it when it comes.

• It comes down to （用来表达某种情况、问题或决定最终的原因、关键因素或核心要点。它通常用于指出导致某个结果或形成某种结论的最终要的因素或主要原因）communication and also spending time together and not thinking that grass is always greener on the other side because that tends to be the problem.

▷关于昂贵婚礼

• The thing that I don't care is the amount of money people spend on a weding. So however much you love someone, however special that day, it only last the same number of hours of every other day.

• And spending tens of thousands of pounds on that for something that goes actually very quickly. It's probably one of the quickest days of my life becausd I didn't have time to think.

• I think a lot of times people do that to show people, to show people that we love each or whatever. So they're putting on some performance （模仿，表演或演出，特指在公众场合或他人面前表现出一种特定的行为或情感）a lot of time.

▷一些人生建议：

• I think it's finding pleasure all the time in simple things, and appreciating that for 10 minutes once a while.

• If you're looking forward to something, you're wasting your time. You need to live for the moment.

• Do you think young people these days have a shorter attention span（注意力持续时间）?