play rough, swing high,crawl to the top of the monkey bars and then just jump off headfirst.

headfirst

• 英 /ˌhedˈfɜːst/ 美 /ˈhedˈfɜːrst/

adv. 不顾前后地；头向前地

调查类例子：

In the 1980s, psychologist Carol Dweck looked how bright fifth grades handled an assignment that was too difficult for them, she found that bright girls were quick to give up. Bright boys, on the other hand, found the difficult material to be a challenge. They found it energizing, and were more likely to redouble their efforts.

approach a challenge

women have been socialized to aspire to perfection

aspire

• 英 /əˈspaɪə(r)/ 美 /əˈspaɪər/

v. 渴望，有志于

bust

• 英 /bʌst/ 美 /bʌst/

n. 半身像；女子胸部，胸围；突击搜查；没价值的事物；经济萧条时期

v. 弄坏，打碎；逮捕；降级；阻止，破坏；突袭，搜查；猛烈打击；打破，炸破

adj. 坏掉的；破产的

perfection or bust

完美或一事无成

undo the socialization of perfection

undo the labels

build a sisterhood

be comfortable with imperfection

early in their careers

刚进入职场的时候

leverage

• 英 /ˈliːvərɪdʒ/ 美 /ˈlevərɪdʒ/

n. 影响力，手段；杠杆力，杠杆作用；<美>杠杆比率

v. <英>举债经营；充分利用（资源、观点等）