【龙腾网】印度网友：虽然我已经25岁了，但我仍然不觉得自己是个成年人
正文翻译
I have a great job and great salary and help my parents financially with major part of my salary. And like most Indians I've never been in any relationship so far.
我有一份很好的工作，薪水也很高，我的大部分薪水都用来资助我的父母。和大多数印度人一样，我到目前为止还没有谈过恋爱。
I see some of my friends getting married or being in relationships or even have Kids.
我看到我的一些朋友结婚了，或者正在谈恋爱，甚至有了孩子。
And it all feels like a grownup thing for me which I won't be able to handle atleast in near future.
对我来说，这一切都像是成年人的事情，至少在不久的将来，我是无法应付这些的。
Does anyone feel like this
有人有这种感觉吗？
原创翻译：龙腾网 http://www.ltaaa.cn 转载请注明出处
Edit I am the youngest of my family.
编辑：我是我们家最小的。
评论翻译
pungentcunt
It is fine, there is a non grown up in all of us, to varying degrees, given an opportunity many of us would go back in time to actually relive those non grown up days.
没事的，我们每个人都有不成熟的一面，只是程度不同，如果有机会，我们中的许多人都会回到过去，真正地重温那些不成熟的日子。
Quieter22
True. I want to go back to time when I used to watch non-stop Cartoons on TV and gaming on computer.
确实。我想回到过去，那时我在电视上不停地看卡通片，在电脑上玩游戏。
I never thought I grow to feel bored of these things. May be I can count it as one of grownup things.
那时候我从没想过将来我会对这些东西感到厌倦。也许我可以把它看成是成年的一个标志。
pungentcunt
Given the content on Television, overall quality of movies and an over kill of streaming services, I prefer going back to watching Tom an Jerry, Donald Duck, and, He Man, may be even Thunder Cats.
考虑到电视上的内容、电影的整体质量和流媒体服务的过犹不及，我更喜欢看当年的《猫和老鼠》、《唐老鸭》、《希曼》，甚至是《雷猫》。
SHRELPX
Ducktales 2017 was great, as good as the1987 one, watch that if you haven't :D
2017版的《鸭子故事》很棒，和1987年版的一样好，如果你还没看过的话就看看吧。
pungentcunt
Yes, Uncle Scrooge and his crew, amazing as always.
是的，斯克罗吉舅舅和他的船员们，一如既往地令人惊叹。
craig_v4
Bro, I'm 27, I am married, I take care of my parents, I have a job as well! I do all things that grownups do!
And yet I don't feel like a grownup and trust me it's a good thing in a way! Not feeling the age is alright! You're still young, so don't stress about these things and enjoy life as much as possible! Don't rush behind responsibilities, take your time and let it be...
兄弟，我27岁，我结婚了，我要照顾我的父母，我还有一份工作!大人做的事我都做!
但我还是觉得自己不像个成年人，相信我，这在某种程度上是一件好事!感觉不到年龄的没关系!你还年轻，所以不要为这些事情感到有压力，尽可能地享受生活吧!不要急于追赶责任，慢慢来，顺其自然。
Quieter22
Agreed. But, though I want to get married, I feel like I won't be ready for something like Marriage, it feels like a lot of responsibility.
同意。但是，虽然我想结婚，但我觉得我还没有准备好结婚，这感觉像是一种责任。
I can barely take care of myself, how can I be responsible for someone else.
我连自己都照顾不好，怎么能对别人负责呢。
For an instance, sometimes even though I am craving something to eat, I feel lazy to go out eat whatever is available at home. (I know it's a silly example)
例如，有时即使我很想吃点东西，但却懒得出去吃，家里有什么就吃什么。(我知道这是个愚蠢的例子)
Did you feel ready before getting married? How is life different before and after getting married?
结婚前你准备好了吗?结婚前后的生活有什么不同?
amrit-9037
But do you get sax daily? Grown-ups get sax daily.
但是你每天都能玩萨克斯（sex）吗?成年人每天都可以玩萨克斯。
crazyoverthinker
It's a myth
这是秘密。
原创翻译：龙腾网 http://www.ltaaa.cn 转载请注明出处
Sand_drifter
rolls on the floor laughing
笑到地板上。
AchuBacchu
*ROFL.
哈哈哈哈。
iShivamz
So you want to feel Old..
所以你想获得老年人的感觉……
原创翻译：龙腾网 http://www.ltaaa.cn 转载请注明出处
Once you cross the 30 year line, your body won't let you feel young, just wait for it..
一旦你过了30岁，你的身体就不会让你觉得年轻了，等着瞧吧。
Quieter22
Haha. I'm pretty sure feeling Old is different from feeling like a Grownup.
哈哈。我很确定老年人的感觉和觉得自己是个成年人是不一样的。
pungentcunt
It depends on how one maintains one's body, I can show you fifty plus people who are fitter than thirty something people (people other than Milind Soman ).
这取决于一个人如何保持自己的身体，我见过一些人明明50多了，却比30多岁的人还健康(除了米林德·索曼）。
Quieter22
Agreed on Milind Soman part. It's amazing how he manage to do that, I sweat and breath like crazy just after skipping rope for few mins
同意米林德·索曼那部分。他是如何做到这一点的，真是令人惊讶，我只是跳了几分钟的绳，就疯狂冒汗，气喘如牛。
bootpalishAgain
Hangovers hit different bruh.
宿醉的感觉不一样。
Ambitious_Jello
Things to do to feel like a grownup:
让自己感觉像个成年人的事情有:
sext and haggle with three or more vendors while buying vegetables
在购买蔬菜时，挑挑拣拣，跟三个或三个以上的摊贩讨价还价；
原创翻译：龙腾网 http://www.ltaaa.cn 转载请注明出处
Opening a bank account in person at the bank or applying for a loan or filing a claim for reimbursement without assistance
亲自到银行开立银行帐户，或在无人协助的情况下申请贷款或申请还款；
Feeling cringe while talking to a teenager or going through an Instagram feed
与青少年交谈或浏览Instagram时感到尴尬；
Not feeling grossed out when a toddler pukes or shits or pees on you and cleaning them up after
当一个小孩在你身上呕吐或拉屎或尿尿时，你不会感到恶心，之后还要清理他们；
Adding an actually relevant second page to your cv
在简历中增加一页真正重要的内容；
Booking a hotel room on the phone
打电话订酒店房间；
Accompanying a dependent loved one to a doctor
陪着自己的爱人去看医生；
Being the designated driver
当专人司机；
Talking to the cops for a traffic infraction
因为交通违规向警察说好话；
Having regret over something that you could have done while you were young
对那些年轻时本可以做的事情感到后悔；
Having a vehicle breakdown alone or with dependents
独自或与家人一起遭遇汽车故障。
Sand_drifter
This is grown up approved.
这是成年人的认可条件。
amrit-9037
Same here man. My job is to teach teenagers and even when I am older it makes me feel like I am also a teenager.
我也一样。我的工作是教青少年，即使当我长大了，这件事也让我觉得我也是一个青少年。
TheRadiantAxe
Try taking up other responsibilities like paying bills, buying groceries, making investments etc.
试着承担一些其他的责任，比如付账单，买杂货，投资等等。
If all of that doesn't work, start filing taxes yourself and you'll definitely start feeling like a grownup.
如果所有这些都不起作用，那就开始自己报税吧，你肯定会开始觉得自己像个大人了。
craig_v4
I do all this and I'm 27 and married, still doesn't feel like a grownup
这一切我都做，虽然我27岁，结婚了，但还是觉得自己不像个成年人。
TheRadiantAxe
Maybe part of it is realizing all grownups are pretending... until they aren't :)
也许是意识到所有的成年人都在假装……结果他们不是。
Fake it till you make it like they say.
就像人们说的，不亲身经历，不知道真假。
Quieter22
I do pay bills and recently started making investments, I don't buy groceries though. I will be filing taxes for the first time and thinking of doing it on my own.
我确实会付账单，最近开始投资，但我不买杂货。我将第一次报税，并考虑自己做这件事。
But none of these had much effect on feeling like grownup.
但这些都没有对感觉自己像成年人有多大影响。
TheRadiantAxe
It's not going to be an overnight transition, but don't worry about it too much and enjoy the ride. Best of luck!
这个转变不会是一夜之间发生，但不要太担心，享受这个过程。祝你好运!
