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分手后,男性会比女性更伤心?

2022-06-20 09:40 作者:菜鸟博士_杂货铺  | 我要投稿

分手后,男性会比女性更伤心?

论文标题:Dirty laundry: The nature and substance of seeking relationship help from strangers online:

作者:Charlotte Entwistle, Andrea B. Horn, Tabea Meier, Ryan L. Boyd

期刊:Journal of Social and Personal Relationships

发表时间:2021/10/23

数字识别码:10.1177/02654075211046635

摘要:Interpersonal relationships are vital to our well-being. In recent years, it has become increasingly common to seek relationship help through anonymous online platforms. Accordingly, we conducted a large-scale analysis of real-world relationship help-seeking to create a descriptive overview of the nature and substance of online relationship help-seeking. By analyzing the demographic characteristics and language of relationship help-seekers on Reddit (N = 184,631), we establish the first-ever big data analysis of relationship help-seeking and relationship problems in situ among the general population. Our analyses highlight real-world relationship struggles found in the general population, extending beyond past work that is typically limited to counseling/intervention settings. We find that relationship problem estimates from our sample are closer to those found in the general population, providing a more generalized insight into the distribution and prevalence of relationship problems as compared with past work. Further, we find several meaningful associations between relationship help-seeking behavior, gender, and attachment. Notably, numerous gender differences in help-seeking and romantic attachment emerged. Our findings suggest that, contrary to more traditional contexts, men are more likely to seek help with their relationships online, are more expressive of their emotions (e.g., discussing the topic of “heartache”), and show language patterns generally consistent with more secure attachment. Our analyses highlight pathways for further exploration, providing even deeper insights into the timing, lifecycle, and moderating factors that influence who, what, why, and how people seek help for their interpersonal relationships.


分手后到底谁会觉得更伤心呢?英国兰卡斯特大学的一项数据研究显示,答案可能是男性。
过去,相关研究关注的都是接受过心理治疗的夫妻,这样得出的结果并不能完全反映大众的情况。因此,研究团队首次决定采用大数据分析的方式探索这一问题。
他们一共对18.4万名在匿名论坛上发表恋爱关系问题的人以及他们的心理状态进行了分析,并统计出了哪些主题与恋爱问题有关。


根据研究团队发表在《社会与个人关系杂志》的结果,沟通问题是被提到最多次数的主题,大约1/5的人都会提到沟通存在困难。此外,1/8的人认为恋爱中存在信任问题。
而新研究还发现,某些特定的主题会与性别存在联系。“这是一次辨别恋爱中性别差异的好机会,”研究的主要作者Ryan Boyd博士表示,比如过去我们认为男性在交往中情感投入会更少,又或者男性会羞于表达自己的情绪,但事实是这样吗?
    答案并不是,与过往的推测差距很大,男性其实可能更容易为情所伤,并且不会闭口不谈……当大家讨论情感问题时,核心的点都是讨论的情感创伤,比如心痛的感觉,还有一些关键词类似于后悔、分手、哭、心碎都代表着这类主题。

参考资料:

[1] Men experience more emotional pain during breakups. Retrieved Nov 10th, 2021 from https://www.eurekalert.org/news-releases/933289

[2] Charlotte Entwistle et al, Dirty laundry: The nature and substance of seeking relationship help from strangers online, Journal of Social and Personal Relationships (2021). DOI: 10.1177/02654075211046635



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