11 Father 父亲

This card indicates that your father in this life was with you in prior lifetimes. Any issues you’ve had with your father likely began long ago. Look at the cards that you draw prior to and after this card, as they will yield clues about the previous lives that you two shared. He may not have been your father in those lives, though, as souls continue to reincarnate together in different roles.

    To break any negative patterns with your father’s soul, be willing to release old anger or unforgiveness. This can be conscious or unconscious emotional energy stored in your psyche. Just your willingness to clear toxic relationship energy is enough to initiate the healing process. Remember that forgiveness doesn’t mean that you approve of this person’s actions. It simply means that you’re no longer willing to carry around anger energy.

    By releasing the past, you subsequently heal your present and future. If you totally forgive your father and yourself, you no longer have to reincarnate with that soul... unless you choose to. You retain only the lessons, growth, and love you shared. As an added benefit, the healing work that you do with your father helps all of the relationships you have with men.

    这张卡，显示了这个世间的父亲，前世也有同样的事。不管你和父亲有什么问题，那个好像都是从很久以前开始的。仔细看这张卡前后抽的其他卡片。这将成为你们俩前生共有的线索。只是，灵魂会在改变角色的同时重生，所以那个时代也许不是你的父亲。

    为了打破与父亲灵魂的旧有模式，要主动放弃过去的愤怒和无法原谅的心情。这是你心中累积的情感能量，你想要放弃这种有害的人际关系，你就开始了治愈的过程。所谓宽容，不是承认对方的行动是正确的。倒不如说你决心不再带着愤怒的能量生活。

    放弃过去，也能治愈自己的现在和未来。如果你不原谅你的父亲，那么你就没有必要与你的灵魂同步重生。你只会继续学习、成长以及与你分享的爱，所以与你父亲的课题对你的所有男性关系都有很大的帮助。