全英vlog 38| 两个人怎么样才算契合？
On my way home the other night, I decided to listen to a podcast just to drown out the chatter in my head, hoping that I could give my mind a break and relax, but unfortunately I failed.
It is said that it is beneficial to have a partner with shared hobbies in a relationship. This will make it easier to form harmonious relationships, does it imply that two people are more compatible in this way?
From a young age, I have always been quite particular when it comes to selecting a partner, with a strict set of criteria such as height, looks, intelligence, strength, musical tastes, and much more. Would you be able to share with me, as a fellow woman, what criteria you had in mind when selecting a potential partner, and if you are currently in a relationship, do they meet all your expectations?
I began to feel a headache coming on, so I went to DEWU，，my go-to phone app, reassured by the safety it provided me, and purchased yet another perfume from my extensive shopping list，as if my inner self was seeking to capture the scent of my aspirations, akin to Gucci Bloom.
Indeed, life is extensive, and one day we may find the ideal person we have envisioned,universe will meet our aspiration that belongs to us, however, how many of us have actually been able to encounter that individual? As people's mindsets have matured, they have started to organise the extensive list, gradually eliminating insignificant items with the passing of time, until only a few core words remain: having the same attitude, being genuine, being open to differing perspectives, embracing tolerance, and bearing responsibility. However, I cannot help but wonder if having minimal requirements when selecting a spouse is actually a wise decision?Is this the so-called compromise in the adult world? Can this compromise really bring happiness and joy? Is this what is called a fit?
那天晚上在回家的路上，我决定听播客，只是为了淹没我脑子里的喋喋不休，希望能让我的头脑休息一下，但不幸的是我失败了。
据说，在一段关系中，有一个有共同爱好的伴侣是有好处的。这将使我们更容易形成和谐的关系，这是否意味着两个人在这种方式下更有默契？
从小到大，我在选择伴侣时一直很讲究，有一套严格的标准，如身高、长相、智力、体力、音乐品味等等。作为一名女性同胞，你能否与我分享一下，你在选择潜在伴侣时有哪些标准，如果你目前正在恋爱，他们是否满足你的所有期望？
我开始感到头痛，所以我打开了DEWU，并从我广泛的购物清单中购买了另一种香水，好像我的内心正在寻求捕捉“k渴望”的香味，类似于Gucci Bloom。
的确，生活是广泛的，有一天我们可能会找到我们所设想的理想的人，宇宙会满足我们属于自己的愿望，然而，我们有多少人真正能够遇到那个人？随着人们心态的成熟，他们开始整理z择偶标准清单，随着时间的流逝，逐渐剔除无关紧要的选项，直到只剩下几个核心词：拥有相同的态度，真诚，眼界高，格局大，宽容，有责任心。然而，我不禁想，在选择配偶时的这种极简主义真的是正确的选择吗？这就是成人世界中所谓的妥协吗？这种妥协真的能带来幸福和快乐吗？这就是所谓的契合吗
