【Dylan James】吸引你的理想男人“You are”版本 | 8小时夜间

You are always aware of the worth and value you possess

You are always honoring your worth and value

You are always seeing yourself as highly valuable

Your worth and value is evident in how you choose to take care of yourself and how you present yourself

Your worth and value is evident in how you handle yourself and respond to life

You are consistently, and fearlessly, self-defining your worth and value

You are consistently, and fearlessly, upholding your values and standards in your life

You are always seeing yourself as irreplaceable because of how unique you are

You feel good with who you are

You love who you are

You love yourself

You are always taking care of yourself in the highest regard because you believe you are worthy the best treatment

You are always maintaining healthy routines for yourself

You are always organizing your day in the healthiest fashion

You believe that your needs, desires and goals matter

You are always respecting yourself, first

You are always loving yourself, first

You are always honoring yourself, first

You believe that having your own purpose and life is important

You are independent and able to balance relationships in your life

You always influence yourself in a positive manner that reinforces healthy relationship beliefs

You are always mindful of what you allow into my mind and life

You always choose to take care of your body like it is a prize

You see yourself as a prize and remain humble in that knowing

You feel comfortable giving and receiving consistent love and affection

You feel comfortable giving and receiving consistent compliments and words of affirmation

You feel comfortable giving and receiving consistent trust in a loving relationship

You believe that love is a normal consistent thing in your life

You believe that you deserve love that is healthy, safe, secure and sustainable

You view love as something that is healthy, safe, secure and sustainable

You are attracted to love that is healthy, safe, secure and sustainable

You are creating love that is healthy, safe, secure and sustainable

You identify as somebody that creates loving connections that are healthy, safe, secure and sustainable

You see yourself as somebody that has always been worthy of consistent love

You see yourself as somebody that has always been able to accept consistent love into their life

You see yourself as somebody that has always been able to maintain a loving relationship because you are secure in who you are

You believe that you are able to create a loving relationship with whoever you choose

You believe that a loving relationship is fun, enjoyable and filled with growth

You believe that a loving relationship is easy to materialize and maintain

You believe that you are worthy and deserving of a supportive, caring and consistently loving relationship

You believe that you are easy to love

You see yourself as somebody that is confident, trusting, secure and chosen in their relationship

The idea of being in a relationship feels good to you

The idea of being loved by another feels natural and normal to you

You embrace the idea of growing in a relationship

You create the environment to grow in a relationship

You are confident in your ability to create solutions in a relationship

You see yourself as somebody that is able to overcome challenges in a relationship

You see yourself as somebody that relaxes and trusts your partner in a relationship

You always honor your body and believe that being sexually intimate is safe and enjoyable

You always prioritize your protection when I am enjoying intimacy

You always feel comfortable, and enjoy the experience of being intimate with another

You always honor myself when being intimate with another and easily speak up if you are uncomfortable

You fearlessly remove yourself from intimate situations that feel unsafe or uncomfortable

You only allow high value individuals to enjoy intimacy with you

You are confident in your body

You feel sexy in your body

You believe that your needs matter when you are intimate with another

You are confident when speaking about your intimacy needs

You are confident when acting on your intimacy needs

You feel comfortable expressing your intimacy needs in a way that is attractive

You are confident in your ability to live up to the intimacy needs of another

You believe that maintaining a fun s*x life is a consistent and ongoing experience for you

You are always open to exploring new ways to embrace safe and consentual intimacy with another

Your s*x life is always exciting and embraced

Flirting and seducing is fun and easy for you

You are witty and mysterious at times in a way that is attractive

You always know what to do, when to do it and how to do it

You always know what to say, when to say it and how to say it

Your awareness is always heightened when being intimate and you pay attention to body language cues

You believe that s*xual connection is important in love

You believe that you can enjoy s*xual encounters and know that whoever you are with values you for more than just intimacy

You believe that intimacy with you is unparalleled and unforgettable

You feel comfortable dominating or remaining submissive when being intimate with another

You are always creating an environment that is safe, fun and consensual when being intimate with another

You are always creating an environment that is exciting, unforgettable and pleasurable when being intimate with another

Your intimacy needs are always being met by another, or by myself

Your sense of worth in a relationship is always derived from who you are, not your ability to be intimate

You always feeling comfortable saying “no”, if you want to

Saying “no” is easy

Saying “no” leads to solutions that are comfortable for you

You are mentally and emotionally available for a relationship

You are always able to handle your emotions in a mature manner

You are always able to mentally focus on solutions

You are able to easily release your past experiences because you have learned and grown from them

You are at peace with your past and allow yourself to feel safe embracing new romantic experiences

You are assuming the best in those around you and maintain an optimistic or trusting outlook on others

You believe that there are men that are emotionally available

You believe that there are men that are romantically faithful

You believe that there are men that are respectful and consistent

You believe that there are men that honor their commitments

You believe that the man that you are attracted to, also find you attractive

You believe that the man that you want to be with, also wants to be with you

You believe that men can grow and mature in a relationship

You believe that men can be honest and take accountability for their mistakes

You believe that understanding men is easy You always anticipate integrity and trust the men that are in your life

You are able to be your authentic self around any man that you find attractive

You always love and respect yourself no matter how attractive a man is

You only give your attention to men that respect you

You always remain non-reactive and allow for how you are showing up to speak for you

When you speak to a man, you are always clear and confident

You are always confident when speaking to a man you find attractive

You feel secure being in a relationship with a man that you find attractive

Receiving mutual love and respect from a man is the easiest thing for you to do

You feel safe, trusting and protected around a man

You and your partner always create mutual respect for each other

You and your partner are always honest with each other

You and your partner always find mutual compromise that benefit both of us

You and your partner always respect each others individuality

You and your partner always focus on creating healthy communication

You and your partner are always able to express our anger in a constructive way

You and your partner always focus on creating solutions when you find yourselves in a disagreement

You and your partner always make strides to understand each other on a soulful level

You and your partner always maintain a healthy sex life

You and your partner always focus on remaining emotionally and mentally connected

You and your partner always prioritize making time for shared activities that you can enjoy together

You and your partner always give each other mutual assistance and support

You and your partner always view each other as irreplaceable

You and your partner always overcome challenges together

You and your partner always create a quality relationship

You and your partner always consistently grow together in our relationship

You and your partner always embrace change with an optimistic mindset

You and your partner always give each other the room to grow

You and your partner always exercise unconditional love

You and your partner always give frequent expressions of authentic appreciation and tenderness

You and your partner always feel confident in our relationship

You and your partner are best friends that prioritize having fun

You and your partner always share the same values

You believe that whoever you are romantically involved with trusts you

You believe that whoever you are romantically involved with respects you

You believe that whoever you are romantically involved with makes an effort to communicate effectively

You believe that whoever you are romantically involved with values showing you consistent affection

You believe that whoever you are romantically involved with makes an effort to emotionally and mentally connect with you

You believe that whoever you are romantically involved with is loyal to you even through difficult times

You believe that whoever you are romantically involved with wants you and only you

You believe that whoever you are romantically involved with is committed to you

You believe that whoever you are romantically involved with falls in love with only you

You believe that whoever you are with sees your worth and value in a relationship

You believe that whoever you are with easily commits to you because of how secure and confident you are

You believe that whoever you are with grows with you in your relationship because they see your value

You believe that you bring out the best in whoever I am romantically involved

You believe that you are irreplaceable in your relationship

You are so easy to fall in love with

You are fearlessly confident

你总是意识到你所拥有的价值和价值你总是尊重你的价值和价值你总是认为自己是非常有价值的你的价值和价值在于你选择如何照顾自己和如何展现自己你的价值和价值在于你如何处理自己和对生活的反应你始终如一，无所畏惧，自我定义你的价值和价值你始终如一，无所畏惧,在生活中坚持自己的价值观和标准你总是认为自己是不可替代的，因为你是如此独特你对自己感觉很好你爱你是谁你爱你自己你总是以最崇高的敬意照顾自己，因为你相信你值得最好的治疗你总是为自己保持健康的生活规律你总是以最健康的方式组织你的一天你相信你的需求,欲望和目标很重要你总是尊重自己，首先你总是爱自己，首先你总是尊重自己，首先你相信拥有自己的目标和生活很重要你是独立的，能够平衡生活中的关系你总是以积极的方式影响自己，强化健康的关系信念你总是留意你允许什么进入我的思想和生活你总是选择照顾你的身体，就像它是一个奖品你把自己看作是一个奖品，保持谦逊，知道你感到舒适给予和接受持续不断的爱和关怀你感到舒适给予和接受持续不断的赞美和肯定的话语你感到舒适给予和接受持续不断的信任在爱的关系中你相信爱是你生活中正常的持续不断的事情你相信你值得拥有健康，安全，有保障和可持续的爱你认为爱是健康，安全，有保障和可持续的爱你被健康，安全，有保障和可持续的爱所吸引你正在创造健康，安全，有保障和可持续的爱你认为有人创造了健康，安全和可持你把自己看成是一个总是值得拥有持续不断的爱的人你把自己看成是一个总是能够在生活中接受持续不断的爱的人你把自己看成是一个总是能够维持一段爱的关系的人，因为你对自己是谁感到安全你相信你能够与任何你选择的人建立一段爱的关系你相信一段爱的关系是有趣的,你相信一段充满爱的关系很容易实现和维持你相信你值得拥有一段支持，关心和持续的爱的关系你相信你很容易被爱你把自己看作是一个自信，信任的人,在一段关系中你感觉很好被另一个人爱着的想法对你来说很自然和正常你拥抱在一段关系中成长的想法你创造了一个成长的环境你对你在一段关系中创造解决方案的能力很有信心你把自己看作是一个能够克服关系中的挑战的人你把自己看作是一个在一段关系中放松和信任你的伴侣的人你总是尊重你的身体，相信性亲密是安全和愉快的你总是优先考虑你的保护当我享受亲密时你总是感到舒适,与他人亲密接触时，你总是尊重自己，如果你感到不舒服，就很容易说出来。你无所畏惧地远离那些感到不安全或不舒服的亲密场合。你只允许高价值的人与你亲密接触。你对自己的身体感到自信。你觉得自己的身体性感。你相信，当你与他人亲密接触时，你的需求是重要的你对自己的亲密需求充满自信当你按照自己的亲密需求行动时你感到舒适，以一种有吸引力的方式表达你的亲密需求你对自己满足另一个人的亲密需求的能力充满自信你相信保持一种有趣的性生活对你来说是一种持续不断的体验你总是乐于探索新的方式来拥抱另一个人的安全和自愿的亲密你的性生活总是令人兴奋的你总是知道该做什么，什么时候去做，怎么做，你总是知道该说什么,什么时候说，怎么说你的意识总是在亲密的时候提高，你会注意身体语言的暗示你相信性接触在爱情中很重要你相信你可以享受性接触，并且知道不管你和谁在一起，都不仅仅是为了亲密你相信和你的亲密是无与伦比的，令人难忘的你觉得在和别人亲密的时候支配或者保持顺从很舒服你总是在创造一个安全的环境,当与他人亲密时，你总是在创造一个令人兴奋、难忘和愉悦的环境。当与他人亲密时，你的亲密需求总是被另一个人或者我自己满足。你在一段关系中的价值感总是来源于你是谁，而不是你亲密的能力。你总是感到舒服地说“不”,如果你想说“不”很容易说“不”会带来让你感觉舒服的解决方案你在精神上和情感上对一段关系都是可以接受的你总是能够以一种成熟的方式处理你的情绪你总是能够在精神上专注于解决方案你能够很容易地释放你过去的经历，因为你已经从中学习和成长了你与你的过去和平相处，并允许自己感到安全拥抱新的浪漫经历你假设你周围的人是最好的，并保持乐观或信任他人的观点

你相信有些男人在情感上是可以接受的你相信有些男人在浪漫中是忠诚的你相信有些男人是值得尊敬和始终如一的你相信有些男人会履行他们的承诺你相信你喜欢的男人也会觉得你很有魅力你相信你想和他在一起,也想和你在一起你相信男人可以在一段关系中成长和成熟你相信男人可以诚实并为他们的错误负责你相信理解男人是容易的你总是期待正直并且相信你生命中的男人你能够在任何你认为有吸引力的男人身边做真实的自己你总是爱并且尊重自己不管一个男人有多么有吸引力你只关注那些尊重你的男人你总是保持不被动并且允许你如何表现出来为你说话当你和一个男人说话的时候,你总是清晰自信当你和一个你觉得有吸引力的男人说话时你总是很自信你觉得和一个你觉得有吸引力的男人在一起很有安全感从一个男人那里得到相互的爱和尊重对你来说是最简单的事情你觉得很安全,你和你的伴侣总是互相尊重对方你和你的伴侣总是对彼此诚实你和你的伴侣总是找到互相妥协的方式，这对我们双方都有好处你和你的伴侣总是尊重对方的个性你和你的伴侣总是专注于创造健康的交流你和你的伴侣总是能够以一种建设性的方式表达我们的愤怒你和你的伴侣总是当你发现自己陷入分歧时，专注于创造解决方案你和你的伴侣总是大步前进，在灵魂的层面上理解对方你和你的伴侣总是保持健康的性生活你和你的伴侣总是专注于保持情感和精神上的联系你和你的伴侣总是优先考虑为你们可以一起享受的分享活动腾出时间你和你的伴侣总是给予彼此相互的帮助和支持你和你的伴侣你和你的伴侣总是一起克服挑战你和你的伴侣总是创造一种高质量的关系你和你的伴侣总是在我们的关系中一起成长你和你的伴侣总是以乐观的心态拥抱改变你和你的伴侣总是给对方成长的空间你和你的伴侣总是锻炼无条件为你你和你的伴侣总是表达真诚的欣赏你和你的伴侣总是对我们的关系充满信心你和你的伴侣是最好的朋友，他们总是把玩乐放在首位你和你的伴侣总是分享相同的价值观你相信与你浪漫相处的人信任你相信与你浪漫相处的人尊重你相信与你浪漫相处的人努力有效地沟通你相信与你浪漫相处的人有价值观向你表达一致的爱意你相信任何一个和你有恋爱关系的人都会努力在情感和精神上与你联系你相信任何一个和你有恋爱关系的人都会忠于你，即使在困难时期你相信任何一个和你有恋爱关系的人都想要你，而且只有你相信任何一个和你有恋爱关系的人都会忠于你你相信任何一个和你有恋爱关系的人都只会爱上你你相信任何一个和你在一起的人都会看到你在一段关系中的价值和价值你相信任何一个和你有恋爱关系的人无论你和谁在一起，他们都会看到你的价值，并与你一起成长。你相信无论我和谁在一起，你都会展现出最好的一面。你相信在你们的关系中，你是不可替代的。你很容易爱上对方