Let Go Of Control, And Control Self （loa翻译练习）

When Neville was drafted 挑选 in the army. Neville did not want to go. They told him, "Isn't that the act of a coward?" He said, "I didn't care what they said."

当内维尔应征入伍时。纳威不想去。他们告诉他:“这难道不是懦夫的行为吗?”他说"我才不管他们说什么"

Why? Because there is no objective reality. Meaning the idea of a coward 懦夫 to one is different to another. Everyone perceives things different. You may be grand in ones eyes but evil in another. The trick is to not care about either and go to what you want.

为什么?因为没有客观现实。也就是说，懦夫的概念对每个人是不同的，每个人对事物的感知都不同。也许在别人眼里你是伟大的，但在别人眼里你是邪恶的。关键是不要去在意它们，去做你想做的。

But I want to touch on something important from this story. But first, when Neville wanted to be with his second wife, he was struggling with wondering HOW it will come about. He talks about how he started thinking of HOW is he going to get a divorce with his current wife. He has not spoken with her in awhile, HOW is he going to just speak with her? What is she going to say? Etc.

但我想谈谈这个故事中一些重要的东西。但首先，当Neville想和他的第二任妻子在一起时，他一直在苦苦思索这一切到底会怎样发生。他谈到他是如何开始思考如何和他现在的妻子离婚的。他有一段时间没和她说话了，他怎么能和她说话呢?她会说什么?等。

He admits he was forgot to exercise this Law. Yes, NEVILLE, the guy who teaches this stuff, forgot to exercise it. Lol. It happens to EVERYONE, even if you know it. But he did not blame himself, instead he went straight to the Law. He let go of all the HOW's and slept in the assumption that he was Married with that woman. He fell asleep as the one he WANTED to be. It was what his hearts desired.

他承认他忘记使用这个法则了。是的，NEVILLE，就是教这些东西的那个人，也会忘记运用法则。哈哈，这种事发生在每个人身上，即使你已经知道这个法则。但他没有责怪自己，相反，他直接使用法则。他不去理会那些“怎样”的问题，而是假设自己已经和那个女人结婚了。他像自己想要的那样睡着了。这正是他内心所渴望的。

"Never blame, only resolve." - Neville

永不埋怨，只有决心- Neville

So back to the army story. He must have learned to let go to the HOW, because he had people implying he is coward. But he did not care. He learned that he must fulfill 履行充满his hearts desire. Who else can fulfill the desires in your heart, other than you?

回到军队的故事。他一定学会了如何放手“HOW”，虽然有别人暗示他是懦夫。但他不在乎。他知道他必须满足他内心的愿望。除了你自己，还有谁能满足你内心的欲望?

He imagined he was out, but then was quickly rejected.

他想象自己已经不在入伍清单了，但是很快被拒绝了。

Here is where I think many of us miss this lesson. Neville imagined what he wanted as though 仿佛he had it already. He slept in room with men, in a tiny bed, yet in his mind he slept in New York in his room. He did what he wanted. BUT after he did this, he was rejected.

我认为我们很多人都错过了这一课。Neville想象他想要的如同他已经拥有了。他和许多人同住一间屋子，睡在一张小床上，但在他的脑海里，他却睡在纽约自己的房间里。他做了他想做的事。但在他这么做之后，他被拒绝了。

After rejection, what did he do? Did he say, "This shit does not work. I imagined and nothing happened. I was rejected. The world is just simply greater than my mind. I never get what I want." Did he react negatively to his rejection? Maybe a touch, who wouldn't? But did he complain? Did he feel that he cannot get what he wants? No. And honestly, I would not even get mad if he thought that. It is only natural to feel that. But we are not called to be "natural" but to not sin. We must not sin. 罪恶过错

被拒绝后，他做了什么?他有没有说，“这狗屎没用。我想象着，什么也没发生。我被拒绝了。世界比我的思想更伟大。我从来没有得到过我想要的。”他被拒绝后反应消极吗?也许是被触动了一下，谁不会呢?但他抱怨了吗?他是否觉得自己得不到自己想要的东西?不。说实话，如果他这么想我都不会生气。有这种感觉是很自然的。但是我们不会被称为“自然”，而是让我们不犯罪，我不可能犯罪（失败）

Neville was able to not react even after rejection because Neville was not imagining to "get out," in a sense. He was imagining who and where he WANTED to be. This is a huge difference. If he was imagining just to "get out" and control the outer-world, guess what? He just got rejected. From this intention he is going to feel completely defeated. If that was his sole purpose  唯一的目标was to just "make something happen," then he lost.

Neville即使在被拒绝后也没有反应，因为从某种意义上说，Neville并没有想过要“离开”。他在想象他想成为的人，他要去的地方。这是一个巨大的区别。如果他只是幻想“走出去”并控制外部世界，你猜怎么着?他刚被拒绝了。这样一来，他就会感到彻底的失败。如果这是他的唯一的目标只是“让事情发生,”然后他会迷失。

He imagined to change his MIND. To change his FEELING of "I." He imagined to change the ONLY thing that is being expressed. HIMSELF. Neville at this time, knew he can change reality, if he changes himself. Since he was solely imagining on changing the FEELING of himself, he was able to persist regardless of circumstances. He did not care what others said, where he was at in the world, or his rejection. He ONLY cared about imagining what he wanted. From doing exactly that, he was about to imagine that way effortlessly for 9 days. He even said he was doing physical training for the army, but all he could think and feel is ecstasy. 陶醉 He was feeling what he wanted, not what he "must feel" or "have to feel" to "get out." No, solely to have he wanted in his mind.

他想象着去改变他的头脑。改变他对“我”的感觉，他想象着去改变这唯一的东西可以被表达的东西。他自己。Neville此时知道，如果他能改变自己，他就能改变现实。因为他只是想象着改变自己的感觉，所以他能够在任何情况下坚持下去。他不在乎别人说什么，不在乎自己在这个世界上的哪，也不在乎自己被拒绝。他只在乎想象他想要什么。从那时起，他就可以毫不费力地想象9天。他甚至说他正在为军队进行体能训练，但他所能想到和感受到的都是狂喜。陶醉在感觉他想要什么,而不是他 “必须感受”或“一定要感觉”,“去“出去”。不，只是在脑子里想着他所想要的。

He let go of controlling his outer-world and controlled himself. The world is reflecting self. And "Self" is everything you think you HAVE and ARE. He may have got rejected and thought, "I am stuck. 卡住了I have to stay here." Instead, he changed himself, he changed what he believed he was and had in his mind. Now he believed he was back in New York, he HAS his bed back, his wife back etc. He has what he wants in his mind.

他不再控制外部世界，而是控制自己。世界在反射自我。而“自我”就是你认为自己拥有和存在的一切。他可能被拒绝了，然后想:“我被卡住了。”卡住了我不得不呆在这里。”相反，他改变了自己，改变了他对自己的看法和想法。现在他相信他回到了纽约，他的床回来了，他的妻子回来了等等。他心里有他想要的东西。

This is how I do it: When I close my eyes this world is shut out  排除and I, like Isaac, am blind 无视to the outer world. Then I feel myself into the state of my desire. With my inner eye I see it all around me. I sense its solidity, and when my five senses are awakened I have the feeling of relief, knowing it is accomplished. - Neville, Wonder Working Power

这就是我这样做:当我闭上眼睛把这个世界拒之门外，像Isaac，我盲目无视外部世界。然后我感觉自己进入了实现我渴望的状态。用我的心灵之眼，我看到了我周围的一切。我感觉到它的坚固，当我的五种感官被唤醒时，我有一种解脱的感觉，知道它完成了。

Neville removes the idea or concept of there even being an "outer-world" when he imagines. He then FEELS what he wishes, see's what he wishes.

在Neville的想象中，他甚至删除了“外部世界”的概念。然后他感觉他所希望的，看到他所希望的。

The great secret is the most freeing. It is to do anything you wish in your mind. You truly are the most high in your mind. You are so powerful in your mind that NOBODY can imprison 关押囚禁you, you can only imprison yourself. Nobody can free you, you can only free yourself. You are the ruler in your mind. You can be the king or the peasant. 农民 It is entirely up to you, to what you desire to be in your mind.

伟大的秘密是最自由的。那就是做任何你想做的事。你真的是你心中最崇高的人。你是如此强大的，在你的脑海里,没有人可以囚禁你,只有你能禁锢自己。没有人能解放你，只有你可以解放自己。你是你思想的主宰。你可以是国王，也可以是农民。这完全取决于你，取决于你想成为什么样的人。

"Don't think in terms of things coming to you. Think in terms of things coming FROM you. This means it was within you all along." - Edward Art

“不要只考虑眼前的事情。从你自己的角度思考。这意味着它一直就在你体内。”

作者：柯柯柯柯br https://www.bilibili.com/read/cv15108696?spm_id_from=444.41.0.0 出处：bilibili 已获得翻译许可