2023/06/02（9）
怎么样？看了我给你写的邮件，什么心情？生气？困惑？无厘头？还是单纯觉得被误解了，懒得解释什么？我知道我的这些评价其实是片面的，之所以这么说，是因为这些评价都是建立在具体的事情上的，而这些具体落实在人格上也是另一回事，事件发生时候的关联思考以及情绪都会影响到一个人的决策和表达，而且，士别三日当刮目相待，那些陈年往事，说到底很难多好地代表一个人，但就那些我印象比较深的过去，我依旧还是给你罗列了123，罗列着罗列着我感觉我在找骂。
How did you feel when you read my email to you? Angry? Puzzled? Nonsensical（毫无意义的）? Or do you just feel midunderstood and too lazy to explain anything?
整体的句型用的机翻，我一开始的表达是以what's your feeling开头的，无厘头也感觉没法翻译，所以用了Nonsensical表达毫无意义的，表达单纯我也想不出来该怎么描述，个人觉得用just会比较好，所以把机翻用的simply给换掉了。
In fact, I know all of my comments are one-sided（片面的）. I say it like this because these comments are established on some specific things and they are maybe diffierent with your real character. The thinking of you before and after the things and your emotion at that time can both effect your decision and expression.
emm，评价这个词我一开始用的assess，其实搜到的更多的还是comment或者reviews这俩单词，assess更多的还是和evaluate这种单词放一起对比，用作评估了。
Instead, there's a saying that “a soldier should be treated with respect for three days”. So those comments maybe cant represent your character. Those things are just something impressed me a lot. However, I still list that one by one and I feel like I'm looking for a scolding（责骂） at last.
士别三日当刮目相看和最后一句是机翻的，罗列个123我改成了一一罗列，我还以为给自己找骂会翻译出什么有意思的表达，结果出乎意料得还挺一般哈哈哈。
就像我邮件里说的，给别人指出问题不是一件讨好的事情，两个角度来看，指出问题的人不一定能把某个人的人性看得很透彻，尤其是我们已经很久没有聊天的前提下，另一方面，被指出问题的人会因为不能意会到提出问题者的思考路径，而不认可我的言语，而真正意义上指出问题本身是需要讨论的话题，你没有回复，也没有表达自己的看法，我在主观上最坏的打算理应当是认为你生气了，或者是你完全不认可。不过也无所谓，我提到的那些内容是我猜测的我们之间潜在的矛盾产生的要素，但也的确都无伤大雅，我本来就对要孩子不太感兴趣，但偶尔会忽然想到，我因为自己的受教育感到那么大的不满，针对教育问题进行了诸多的思考，不要孩子的话，我岂不是白想了那么多？
Just like my word in email, it's not a pleased thing to point out something wrong. I can explain it from two viewpoints. First, the people who point out wrong maybe cant see you so thoroughly（彻底地）. Especially on the basis that we haven't chatted with each other for a long time. Secondly, maybe you'll disagree my opinion because you cant understand my thinking path （思考路径）. And find the real problems need discusssion between us. You response nothing means the worst thing is that you are angry or you are disagree all of that. But it's nothing to do with me. （与我无关）I don't care what I comment about you. it's just the potential elements which make contradiction between us. I'm not interested in child, just feel that I thought a lot of education of children occasionally. All of these thinkings will be useless If I don't want a child, isn't it?
你又没什么时间陪我做这些交流，我也在好好陪你和等你呀，你想想，我给你写这些专栏，何尝不是一种精神陪伴呢？isfp属于是精神内耗比较严重的人，其实挺需要这种陪伴的，但我说实话不太清楚该如何激励你的学习，所以脑子一抽，想着给你分享一下我学习上的思考，但你肯定不会很喜欢这种，今天开始继续把我写的东西手翻成英语吧，我觉得这种方法也挺好，就当是对自己英语翻译和写作的锻炼了对吧。翻译下来好累啊，挺花时间的，今天就翻译这么多吧~~~~
