【龙腾网】加州一女大学生想在视频上课时哺乳被教授拒绝，评论区网友各执一词

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A college student says a professor told her not to breastfeed her baby during online class

一名大学生说，一位教授告诉她不要在网络课堂上用母乳喂养她的孩子

Marcella Mares, a college student, says her professor told her not to breastfeed her 10-month-old daughter during online class.

Marcella Mares是一名大学生，她说她的教授告诉她不要在网络课堂上用母乳喂养她10个月大的女儿。

A California college student says she was told by her professor she could not breastfeed her baby during an online class, prompting an apology from the instructor after she raised concerns to the school.

一名加州大学的学生说，她的教授告诉她不能在网络课堂上用母乳喂养她的孩子，在她向学校提出担忧后，该教授向她道歉。

Marcella Mares, mother to a 10-month-old girl, received an email from her Fresno City College instructor on September 23 about a new class rule requiring students to turn on cameras and microphones during online classes for attendance purposes.

9月23日，身为10个月大女儿母亲的Marcella Mares收到了弗雷斯诺城市大学教授发来的一封电子邮件，内容是一项新的上课规定，要求学生在网上上课时打开摄像头和麦克风，以确认学员是否参加上课。

Mares wrote back and said she could leave her camera and microphone on but may turn it off when she needs to breastfeed her daughter.

Mares回信说，她可以让摄像头和麦克风开着，但在需要给女儿喂奶时可能会关掉摄像头和麦克风。

With the pandemic in the US entering its seventh month, many parents have had to redefine their work-life balance as many workplaces and schools remain virtual. Mares sent the email to her instructor in hopes that it wouldn't impact her grade, but instead received an unexpected response.

随着疫情在美国进入第七个月，许多家长不得不重新定义工作与生活的平衡，因为许多工作场所和学校仍处于虚拟状态。Mares把这封邮件发给了她的教授，希望不会影响她的成绩，但却收到了意想不到的回复。

"I am glad to hear that you can have your camera and microphone on, but please do not breastfeed your daughter during class time because it is not what you should be doing," the instructor replied. "Just do that after class."
Mares said she was shocked at his response.

“我很高兴听到你可以开着摄像头和麦克风，但请不要在上课时间喂你的女儿，因为这不是你应该做的，”教授回答说。“课后去做这些事情吧。”
Mares说她对他的反应感到震惊。

On the same day, Mares said, the instructor announced during class that he received a "weird" email from a student who wanted to do some "inappropriate" things during class.

Mares说，就在同一天，教授在课堂上宣布，他收到了一封“奇怪的”电子邮件，来自一个想在课堂上做一些“不恰当的”事情的学生。

This made her even more upset because she said she felt "he publicly outed me in front of the class."

这让她更加难过，因为她说她觉得“教授在全班面前公开羞辱了我”。

Mares eventually dropped the class for reasons unrelated to the incident, but said she expected the school to take further action regarding the incident.

Mares最终因其他原因退学，但她表示希望学校能对此事采取进一步的行动。

"Dean Lorraine smith communicated with her, confirming her rights according to California law and we worked with the instructor to make sure that her rights weren't being violated," Bonilla said. "The instructor also reached out to her to correct his directive."

博尼拉说:“院长洛林·史密斯与她进行了沟通，根据加州法律确认了她的权利，我们也与教授一起确保她的权利不被侵犯。”“教授也主动去纠正他的错误要求。”

According to Bonilla, "the instructor was not aware of the law pertaining to breastfeeding and now understands that his directive was not correct."

根据博尼拉的说法，“教授不知道有关母乳喂养的法律，现在教授已经知道他的要求是错误的。”

CNN has reached out to the instructor for comment but has not yet heard back.

CNN已经联系了这位教授，请他发表评论，但还没有得到回复。

Mares told CNN that she has not had any issues with breastfeeding in any of her other classes during her first semester as a mom. Other instructors have been supportive of her, she said.

Mares告诉美国有线电视新闻网，在她做妈妈的第一个学期，她在其他任何课程上都没有任何母乳喂养的问题。她说，其他教授也很支持她这么做。

评论翻译

ReadyPlayerTwo
you would’ve seen that she asked if she could turn her cam off to breastfeed but was denied and publicly shamed. Babies can’t wait to be fed. When they’re hungry they’re hungry and you have to feed them like any good mother would.

你会看到她问是否可以关掉摄像头进行母乳喂养，但遭到了拒绝，并在公众面前蒙羞。婴儿迫不及待地想要吃东西。当他们饿了的时候，你必须像任何一个好妈妈那样给他们吃东西。

Vivian
The amount of people that think someone needs to excuse themselves or turn off the camera because "no one wants to see" breastfeeding is really disappointing but not really surprising. It's a baby eating.

很多人认为有人需要找借口或者关掉镜头，因为“没人想看到”母乳喂养，这确实令人失望，但也不是很令人惊讶。这是一个婴儿在吃东西。

Ordinary Person
She isn't interested in studying and training for sure. What's such a hurry to study when she's a mother to a dependent kid. That duty should be the top priority..

她对学习肯定不感兴趣。当她是一个需要抚养的孩子的母亲时，又有什么必要如此匆忙地学习呢?抚养孩子的责任应该是最优先考虑的。

Rowan Burns
Who says she can’t do both? It’s not her ‘duty’ to stop classes to solely look after her kid every second of every day... it’s probably better long term to have an education as well.

谁说她不能这么做?她没有“义务”去停止上课，然后每天的每一秒都单独照顾她的孩子……从长远来看，接受教育可能更好。

Ordinary Person
If she cannot manage both, which is what's said in the headline here, she rather focus on her young one, who is dependent on her for the most basic need - nourishment. She can persue studies when the baby is independent.

如果它不能兼顾两者，就像标题中说的那样，它会把注意力集中在孩子身上，孩子需要它提供最基本的营养。当孩子独立后，她可以继续学习。

Vahap Seyfi ÇINAR
Of course, she should apologize, because the fact that he is taking distance education does not mean that he can do every activity at home in front of the camera. The course and the professor should be respected.

当然，她应该道歉，因为她接受远程教育并不意味着他可以在家面对着镜头做所有的事情。课程和教授应该受到尊重。

erica_4_empowerment
She doesn't have to be on camera. She can just go off and if she needs mommy and baby bonding time. Do so. It's you're right as a mother. But no need to be on camera.

她不需要对着镜头。她可以离开，如果她需要妈妈和宝宝的亲密时间。这样做。你作为一个母亲是对的。但没必要对着镜头。

Wait_
Exactly.
That is exactly what she told the professor she would need to do.
He told her she should wait until after class to breastfeed, and leave her camera and microphone on at all times during class.

完全正确。
这正是她告诉教授她需要做的。
教授告诉她应该等到下课后再喂母乳，并在上课期间一直开着相机和麦克风。

Symone
They have actual breast feeding shirts to cover your breast while safely breastfeeding.

在你安全地哺乳的时候，有真正的哺乳衬衫来覆盖你的乳房。

smsullivan
Read the article. She asked to turn off the camera during breast feeding and her professor refused

读这篇文章。她要求在哺乳期间关掉摄像机，但遭到了教授的拒绝

Maria C Debernardini
She can be off camera for the time of breastfeeding. Normally, her baby will be bottle feeding during her regular in school classes, she is lucky to be home! Why she should make such a big deal! Breast are distracting, it is nature!

在哺乳的时候，她可以离开镜头。正常情况下，她在学校上课的时候会用奶瓶喂宝宝，她能在家哺乳真是幸运!她为什么要这么小题大做!乳房是分散注意力的，这是自然的!

Todd P
If on a zoom call, cover that up. Please. Nobody wants to see that. Feed your baby all you want, dont make the zoom call about that. Have some decency for your classmates, professor, and yourself.

如果是视频通话，把它掩盖起来。没人想看到这些。然后开始喂宝宝等所有你想要做的事,对你的同学、教授和你自己要有一点礼貌。

Jean
She ask to turn off the camera and the teacher denied it, but she could just zoom in or move the camera up to do it, I feel like was more of a dare "You didn't allow me to turn off the camera, well now everyone will see"

她要求关掉摄像头，教授拒绝了，但她可以移动摄像头来做这些事，我觉得这更像是一种挑战"你不允许我关掉摄像头，现在每个人都会看到"

Scubyw
All female students should support her and go topless during every breast feeding session.

所有的女学生都应该支持她，并在每次哺乳期间袒胸露乳。

mohi sunkara
Or she can use a breast pump and use bottle to feed the kid. I don't think anyone will obxt that and she won't have to turn off her camera and mic.

或者她可以用吸奶器和奶瓶喂孩子。我认为没有人会反对她，她也不必关掉摄像头和麦克风。

Chief Fanta
Let's all be sincere, I'd be uncomfortable if I was in that class too. Of course she has to feed her baby, the professor would have asked her to turn off her camera.

说实话，如果我也在那堂课上，我会很不自在的。当然，她要喂她的孩子，教授会让她关掉摄像头。

FloridaOpinion
Why can't she cover her camera or give the baby a bottle? I grew up with women breastfeeding in church but they always used a cover. Breastfeeding appears to be more for mom than baby. But you are not better than a mom who bottle feed. Nourishment is the key.

她为什么不遮盖摄像头，或者给宝宝一个奶瓶?在我成长的过程中，教会里有很多女人在给我喂奶，但她们总是用一个遮布。母乳喂养似乎更多的是母亲而不是婴儿。但你并不比用奶瓶喂孩子的妈妈好，营养是关键。

Tom Mutdosch
How do you solve it if you already emailed the professor to work it out, and then instead of offering understanding he calls out your email in public.

如果你已经给教授发了邮件让他解决这个问题，但是他没有表示理解，而是在公共场合大声喊出了你的邮件，你该如何解决这个问题呢?

Gregory
I want to know why she would have the camera on or uncovered exposing herself.

我想知道她为什么会开着摄像头，或者不遮盖自己的身体。礼貌是很重要的。

Elaine Hughes
It's the way she's doing it, with zero modesty. There are ways to breastfeed without being bare-chested. I don't blame the professor.

这是她做事的方式，毫不谦虚。有很多方法可以让你在不袒胸的情况下用母乳喂养。我不怪教授。

Somoca Face with medical mask
Ok. I read the article. Professor could've worded the email differently, but student could've used proper decorum during that time. I breastfed my children, now a professor, teach online. I don't want a free show of boobies either.

好吧，我读了这篇文章。教授可以用不同的方式表达邮件，但学生可以在那段时间使用适当的礼仪进行哺乳。我用母乳喂养我的孩子，现在我是一名教授，在网上教书。我也不想免费看咪咪。

yeet the great
The real problem here is schools or instructors that think they have any right to force students to use cameras

这里真正的问题是学校或教师认为他们有权利强迫学生使用摄像头

RobmclCanada
Would she be breastfeeding in the class room if at the college.

如果是在大学里，她会在教室里哺乳吗?

jason self
Seems like she could have been decent and moved the camera up a little as common courtesy but these liberals wanna cause a scene with everything they do.

看来她本可以体面地把摄像头向上移一点，作为正常的礼貌，但这些自由主义者想要对他们所做的一切制造一场闹剧。

courtney
I don’t understand why cameras and microphones have to be on.

我不明白为什么一定要开着摄像头和麦克风。

Simon Trumble
I have no issue if this person doesn't mind advertising her breastfeeding techniques.
But did she think about refocusing the camera to her face?
Or did she wanted to make it an issue, then drop out. Unrelated according to her.

如果这个人不介意宣传她的母乳喂养技术，我没有意见。
但她有没有想过把镜头对准自己的脸?
还是她想把它变成一个问题，然后退学。据她说，这与此事无关。

C.R. Cent
No issue with a mother breastfeeding and even in public. It’s very healthy and beautiful. I don’t know if I could concentrate while in class.

母亲在公共场合哺乳都没有问题。这是非常健康和美丽的。但我不知道我是否能在课堂上集中注意力。

OlllO
The comments here are ridiculous. 1st, read the article. She was asked to not turn off the cam or mic. 2nd, when did breastfeeding become taboo? All mammals breastfeed. It’s the most natural & healthy thing to do for your baby. If you have a problem with it, that’s you, not her.

这里的评论很荒谬。第一，她被要求不要关掉摄像头或麦克风。第二，什么时候母乳喂养成了禁忌?所有哺乳动物都要母乳喂养。这是为你的宝宝做的最自然和健康的事情。如果你有问题，那是你，不是她。

averey Medium star
“Mares wrote back and said she could leave her camera and microphone on but may turn it off when she needs to breastfeed her daughter.” The professor then said no which is against California law.

Mares回复说，她可以让摄像头和麦克风开着，但在需要给女儿喂奶时可能会关掉。教授说不，这是违反加州法律的。

Chad Phillips
What was she going to do if she had to do in person classes? Pop it out and breastfeed the kid in the classroom? No she would adjust her schedule and feed the baby within a reasonable time before or after.

如果她必须在学校上课，她还会怎么做吗?把它拿出来，在教室里给孩子喂奶?不，她会调整自己的时间表，在合理的时间前后给孩子喂奶。

Andrea Alexander
Would she be permitted to do this during in-person classes? If the answer is no then the professor did nothing wrong. You are suppose to conduct yourself as if you are in class. The student should be paying attention to the professor during class time, not her baby.

她会被允许在课堂上这样做吗?如果答案是否定的，那么教授没有做错。你的行为举止应该像在课堂上一样。学生应该在课堂上关注教授，而不是她的孩子。

Hiwot D. Gizaw
Mares said she could leave her camera and microphone on but may turn it off when she needs to breastfeed her daughter.” and the school replied “...but please do not breastfeed your daughter during class time because it is not what you should be doing”. Both sides have a point.

Mares说，她可以让摄像头和麦克风开着，但在需要给女儿喂奶时，可以把它们关掉。学校回答说:“但请不要在上课时间给女儿喂奶，因为这不是你应该做的。”双方都有道理。

Jayne Marie Wilson-Seuling
but, if you were in a real classroom. How would your baby be fed then..?!? Maybe everyone doesnt want to see you feeding your baby lnline.?!

但是，如果你在一个真实的教室里。那你的宝宝是怎么吃的?也许每个人都不希望看到你用母乳喂养你的宝宝。

amy trapani
I'm all for breastfeeding, I was breastfed and it is a choice completely up to the mother. However if you are not allowed to bring a baby to a class on campus, maybe you shouldn't be allowed to bring a baby to an online class either.

我完全赞成母乳喂养，我是母乳喂养的，这完全取决于母亲的选择。然而，如果你被不允许带孩子去学校上课，也许你也不应该带孩子上网课。

Jay
One small cloth like... thin towel to cover some portion of body is enough to avoid such situation.
You both can do your work without any issue with this solution.

一个小布像用薄毛巾盖住身体的一部分就可以避免这种情况。
用这个方法你们都可以毫无问题地工作。

TERM LIMITS NOW!
What the hell is wrong with her?? We tell our daughter she has to act like she was in school even though she is having to do online school

她到底是怎么了??我们告诉我们的女儿，她必须表现得像在学校一样，即使她必须在网上学习。