内容概要

How to speak up in conversation

The dialogue is about how to have conversations without feeling awkward. The first tip is to start with a compliment, which can put good vibes into the conversation. The second tip is to use phrases like "oh, that reminds me of" to connect with the other person and start a story. This can help avoid feeling stuck in awkward silence.

词汇

vibe

( informal ) a mood or an atmosphere produced by a particular person, thing or place 情绪；气氛；氛围

frigging

a swear word that many people find offensive, used to emphasize a comment or an angry statement to avoid saying 'fucking' （避免使用fucking而说的粗话）该死地（的），他妈地（的）

dude

N-COUNT A dude is a man. In very informal situations, dude is sometimes used as a greeting or form of address to a man. 男人; 伙计

在十分非正式的场合，dude有时被用作对男性的问候语或称呼。

原文

how to run out of things to say in conversation, So you never have an awkward conversation again. The first is to start your interactions with a little compliment. Joe Rogan is incredibly good at this on his podcast. For instance, you can comment on work and say something like, wow， You know, the work you do is absolutely incredible.

如何在谈话中用完要说的话，这样你就再也不会有尴尬的谈话了。首先是用一点赞美开始你的互动。乔·罗根在这方面非常擅长他的播客。例如，你可以对工作发表评论，然后说，哇。你知道，你所做的工作绝对不可思议。

First off, or for instance, you can talk about their energy, You can say something like, wow, you know, I feel like I fairly known you, and I just love the vibes you give off and, or you can say something physical about their appearance. You can be like, hey, I love that shirt. Your work, all three of those are going to make your small talk after that a ton easier. So start with that. Second is, you can start using the phrase as you're talking.

首先，或者，例如，你可以谈论他们的能量，你可以说，哇，你知道，我觉得我很了解你，我只是喜欢你发出的共鸣，或者你可以说一些关于他们外表的身体。你可以像，嘿，我喜欢那件衬衫。你的工作，所有这三个都会让你在那之后的闲聊变得容易吨。所以从这个开始。第二，你可以在说话的时候开始使用这个短语。

Oh, that reminds me of, hey Kristen, so good to see you. dude I love your bracelets you're wearing. Those are frigging awesome. Oh, oh wow, yeah, I mean, they're, they're kind of new, it always reminds me of my trip to Mexico every time I see it. Notice how the first person started with a compliment, which is going to put good vibes into the conversation. And then the next person jumped off from the compliment into the story about Mexico.

哦，这让我想起了，嘿，克里斯汀，很高兴见到你。伙计我喜欢你戴的手镯。那些真棒。哦，哦，哇，是的，我是说，它们是，它们有点新，每次我看到它的时候，它总是让我想起我的墨西哥之旅。请注意第一个人是如何以赞美开始的，这将使对话产生良好的共鸣。然后下一个人从赞美中跳了起来，进入了关于墨西哥的故事。

And then they can end up starting to talk about that.

然后他们最终可以开始谈论这一点。