TED演讲：恋爱的正确方式

Light hearted yet still thought provoking.

There are some signs on Unhealthy love

The first one is Intensity. Abusive relationships don't start out abusive, they start from exciting and Accelerating. Always ask yourself is there enough room to breathe? Does the pace of intimacy makes you feel Comfortable?

The second one is isolation. I healthy relationships makes you isolated from all your comfortable sources such as your former friends, your family members, and so on to make help better of them Healthy relationships Should be Two people loving each other, but at the same time continuing with sea activities they like Socializing with the people they like.

The 3rd one is jealousy. After the period of 20 months, jealousy came creep in.Unhealthy relationships Occupying too much the part there I want to be with you ob the off line

The first one is belittling. They always speak you of you. A healthy relationship should be your partner knows your secret but remains loyal. They should say words to build up your confidence rather than make yourself think less of you

The 5th one is volatilityy There shouldn't be too many Many ups and down.

Although we might know many ways to keep healthy relationship, but in practice we might not be able to conceal our feelings but that's okay. The truth is that all of us can learn to change The intensity to love It's our nature But the ability to love Requires all of usto learn.快快点死 is that Learning to maintain a healthy relationship is not rocky sides Open communication, mutual understanding and patience And kindness. All of those are saying that we can practice in our daily life