04 Authority Figures 权威人士

    In your previous and current lifetimes, you followed rules that were set down by authority figures such as parents and teachers. You may have also encountered intimidating or even cruel authority figures in the past. Perhaps you found yourself in the presence of those who were power-hungry or abusive. These situations can lead you to fear authority figures and succumb to their will in the present.

    While it’s normal to sometimes be intimidated by powerful individuals, fearing authority figures can lead to unhealthy passivity. For example, you may feel pressured to bow to another’s rules without standing up for your rights. Or you may develop “conflict phobias,” in which you negate your own needs in order to avoid arguments and disharmony. In some cases, this can lead to a form of depression called “learned helplessness,” in which you don’t even try to improve your life.

    To heal this situation, fill yourself with self-love and self-esteem, and see yourself as being whole and healed. Oftentimes, just remembering past-life details will lead to clearing and healing.

    前世和今世，你，是遵从父母和教师等的权威者决定了的规则来的。而且，在过去，你也许遇到过威逼他人，让人觉得残酷的权威人士。你们可能是被权欲很强的人和虐待的人包围着吧。因此，即便是在当今社会，也会恐惧权威人士，并屈服于他们的要求。

    恐惧拥有权力的人是理所当然的，但对权威人士的恐惧有时会造成不健康的服从。比如，有为了保护自己的权利而不做斗争，却去遵守别人的规则的情况吧。或者，你会有对立恐惧症，为了避免争论和不和谐，你可能会忽略自己的需求。这就会导致所谓的学习能力无力感的抑郁状态，甚至失去改善自己生活的动力。

    要想解决这个问题，必须要有对自己的爱与尊敬，这样的你才能被认为是完全治愈的存在。大多数情况下，只要回忆起关于过去世界的细节，就会去除障碍，治愈心灵。