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【龙腾网】辩论:相貌在恋爱中重要吗?

2020-05-29 17:05 作者:龙腾洞观  | 我要投稿

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Have you ever asked yourself why do you want to lose weight or get that perfect hair-cut? A lot of us lay so much emphasis on outward beauty, on the colour of our skin, our hair and eyes that we forget to appreciate the beauty that lies within. Who doesn't want to look good? It raises your confidence level making you feel great about yourself. But when it comes to choosing your partner or even friends how much emphasis do you lay on looks? Does love diminish if the person's appearance doesn't match your appearance? Is our initial judgement of people based on superficial criterion alone?

你可曾问自己,为什么你想减肥或剪一个完美的发型吗?我们很多人都非常注重外表美、关注肤色、头发和眼睛,我们忘记了欣赏内在美。有谁不希望自己好看呢?它会提升你的信心水平,使你觉得自己优秀。但是,当它来选择你的伴侣甚至朋友时,你有多注重他们的外表?如果那个人的外貌配不上你,你会去爱他吗?(外貌)是我们初步判断一个人的唯一标准码?

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yes (65.0%) 344 Votes

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Jatin, Baroda
Looks Somewhat Matters in a relationship......

长相在交往中稍微有一点用...

unknown, Mumbai
People say that true character matters more than looks and once you are 30-40 looks doesnt matter...its true only up to certain levels..and what about life before this age...generally u dont wait till 30 to start a relationship and when the relationship starts nobody cares to know how ur character is if u look ugly..u r rejected instantly...even in ur friend circle ur jokes r less funny, u r less heard...and generally these ugly people suffer from low esteem bcoz of their constant rejection all the time...looking good is important for relationships and ur overall poplarity....

人们说好的品质比长相更重要而你一旦到了3,40岁长相就一点也没用了...它确实只在一个年龄段前起作用..只在这个特定的年龄段之前...一般你不会等到30岁才开始谈对象而当一开始找对象时如果你长的很搓那么没人会在乎你的品质...你会马上被拒绝...甚至在你的朋友圈里你说笑话都不会有人笑,没几个人愿意听你说话...一般这些丑一点的人们由于成天不断的被拒绝而忍受无人尊重的日子...长相在交往中很重要这样你才能普遍受大家喜欢...

D3, Houston
Looks do matter definitely in a relationship though few people deny that fact its not true.Atleast the partner should match the minimum criteria of the other partner...but it does matter.

外表是交往中的绝对必要关系虽然有些人不愿意承认但是确实是这样的。无论如何配偶交往时有一个长相的最低标准...它确实起着作用

Rohit, Kolkata
it does

有用

Saggy, Pune
Yes looks do matter because it is one of the things which creates affection and affection is the initial stage of love...so I can say outward beauty initiates the relationship but to move ahead with that relationshp depends upon the beauty that lies inside(nature and behavior I want to say)...

是的长相很重要因为它能让人喜爱而这喜爱的情感是爱的基础阶段...所以我可以说有外在美才有了开启交往的开始但是这段关系能否保持下去要取决于内在美(我想说的是性格和品质)

K, Bangalore
It does to keep your partner engaged. No doubt that true love is beyond beauty, but beauty keeps the fire on

外貌能吸引你的伴侣。毫无疑问爱情超越了长相,但是一副好皮囊能保持爱情的刺激

priyanka chopra, mumbai
yes it matters alot .. like i choose shahid kapoor.

是的外貌决定了很多...就像我选择沙希德·卡普尔

Pearl, Pune
Yes.....looks do matter...!! Once or twice your partner will say that ..looks don't matter but under the peer pressure or the society ....even that same person would start thinking ..that.....it would have been better if my partner was good looking...!! Finally the person who is comparatively low with looks will have to listen to comments/requests to groom himself/herself by doing various things....!!

是的...长相很重要...!!你的伴侣会说一两次长相不重要...但是在同样的压力下或社会中...甚至同一个人都会开始思考...如果我的伴侣长的好看那该更好!!!最后那些长的相对差一点的人会不得不听从别人的意见开始打扮自己...!!

Ishan, Delhi
Looks does matter

外貌很重要啊

Raja, Pune
Arre yaar the looks do matter that is why you stop the channel surfing you see katrina on a channel and start with the surfing once the song is finished... Looks do matter.....

外貌很重要因为这是为什么当你上网时看到了卡特里娜就要等她的歌放完了才继续上网...长相真心重要...



pritam singh, delhi
yes

是的

ad gupta, varanasi
looks do matter

长相有用

Manisha, Delhi
Yes looks does matter.....coz u need to compliment each other....well else others will do speak bad about it and ultimately things started breaking

是的外貌很重要...因为我们需要互相恭维...其他人如果没说好那么最后事情就砸了

vaishnavi, Chennai
Looks may degrade years after years....But its helps to start the relationship...its bitter truth....

长相会随着时间流逝而衰老消亡...但是它有助于开启一段关系...尖锐的事实

Unlucky, Bangalore
It does matter,looks have always been a important aspect.Atleast for 99% people..I have been rejected by many just because I am not beautiful and fat.People might even like you but they will take you only as a friend or sister if u dont look good.People reject you at the first glance,they dont even bother to know the person you are if you are not beautiful.And people who know you well also reject you :(.Either u shud be beautiful/dead.Theres no love for ugly people in this world.

它不要紧,长相一直是一个重要的方面。至少在99%的人们中...我曾被拒绝过很多次因为我又肥又丑。如果你长的搓人们也许会喜欢你但是只把你当朋友或姐妹。人们在一眼就拒绝你,如果你长得像凤姐他们甚至不愿意费心去了解你。而跟你很熟的也会跟你说咱不合适。(不漂亮,毋宁死 ,男屌丝与女屌丝的世界中没有爱情)

Truth Speaker, Timbaktoo
Yes it does...alot..

外貌实在是很重要啊

shrea, kenya
looks do affect ur relationships at time!1

外貌偶尔能影响我们的关系!

TUSHAR, LONDON
It does help.

长相确实有用

vikas, banglore
Beauty catches ur eyes first and later ur heart....!

漂亮能第一时间吸引眼球其次才是内心...!



Gudia, delhi
Looks matter not not to start a relation with someone.. bt sometime if your partner or u are more good looking than some kind of insecurity take place in your relationship... so its partially matters...

只长相并不能开始一段与别人的感情,但是有时如果你的伴侣或者你长的更好看一点那在交往中的有些不安全因素可以避免...所以它还是有点用的...

dinesh, chennai
look makes fell.

外貌很重要

Srini, Hyderabad
Looks obviously matter.

外貌很明显很重要

Gourav Dawra, Chandigarh
Yes, since it definitely helps to START A RELATIONSHIP but yes can't sustain it.

是的,虽然它确实有助于开始一段交往但是光凭外貌不能维续下去

ABHISHEK, PATNA
Will u be able to appreciate inner beauty without meeting someone? Sadly looks matter a lot. If u can't score a second date with someone(U lost out coz of looks that is!), how could u possibly expect them to know the inner u (AND VICE-VERSA) .

你能不看长相而去体会一个人的内在美吗?长的丑就是个大悲剧。如果你失去了与对方第二次约会的机会(是因为长相苦逼才失去机会的!),那你怎么可能让对方去了解你的内在美(反之亦然)

Vijay, Bangalore
Yes!!..it really matters, since it starts from looks.. itself...then rest of the things...

是的!!它真心重要,因为交往的开始来自于外貌...本身然后才由其他的七七八八决定...

Priya, Bangalore
we have to accept the fact that looks really matters in these days..

现在我们必须接受外貌很重要的事实

Sushant, Bangalore
Love and appearance go side by side but love takes the precedance....

爱情和外貌是并列的但是外貌优先

Rahul, Delhi
Yes its bitter truth but it does.Its a common feeling it matter what one says.Beauty attracts all.First attraction matters then inner beauty.You first impressed by one's beauty then later you know abt the inner soul.Its all bcoz of films and television.

是的这是一个尖锐的事实但它确实很重要。不管别人怎么说但是这是一个公认的事实。漂亮的脸蛋能吸引一切。首要的吸引别人其次才是内在美。你对人的第一印象来自于外貌然后才能了解内心的灵魂。这都是来自于电影和电视。

Deekap, Shah
No. It doesn't

不,它不重要

M, Kolkata
Looks do matter. Initial attraction is only by looks and personality.

长相很重要。第一印象只来自于长相和人格。

renuka, raipur
looks matter some how bt not completely.... it helps to boost up d affection towards each other......

外貌是重要的但不代表全部...它有助于加强双方间的好感

Ghanshyam, Mumbai
Initially Looks matter....over the time in relation the looks become Oblivious...:)

内在美才重要...随着时间的流逝外貌会被人所忘却...

dakewlguy, india
i am sure the 36 % on the other side say it doesnt coz they belong in the no-looks category ..hahaha..otherwise one wouldnt say that looks dont matter .

我敢确定这些36%的反对者说外貌不重要是因为他们属于屌丝阶层,啊哈哈哈,否则一个人不可能说外貌不重要

Tejas, UK
It does..........its pivotal for attraction

它确实很重要....它是魅力的关键

ugly guy, manchester
yes of course that is the d only thing that matters these days..36% on d other side r hypocrites!! sad but true!

当然重要因为现在它是唯一的衡量标准...36%的反对者全是假道学!!悲剧但是现实!

Ajay, Samalkha, Panipat, Haryana
yes it does..

是的他很重要

Meghal, silvassa
outerlook does matter a lot.Certainly to show off, it actually reflect your outer personality though one have to do nothing with that. people come running to you if only u look smart enough. your partner wanna to be proud to have u smart fulls. no one sees inner beauty of heart. that true enough

外貌是主要的取决因素。无疑的是,它表达了你的外表条件虽然人们并不能对外貌做什么。如果你找的足够好看人们会主动接近你。你的伴侣会为你漂亮的脸蛋骄傲,没人看的到内在美,这确实是事实

sumeet, vellore
yes

是的

Abhinai, Chennai
Ofcourse!!! without doubt...

当然重要!!!毫无疑问

Bishnu, Dimapur
in todays generation it matters a lot

在现在确实外貌很重要

Gaurav, Mumbai
Looks matter but character and behaviour also equally matters

长相很重要但是品质和行为也同样重要

ish, ynr
this matters a lot...

这个很要紧

Anand, New Delhi
Yes It does matters, because the inner beauty will only be judged if a person approaches to individual. And I reckon the looks plays an important role in first meeting...

是的它很重要,因为内在美只能在被接近的时候所判断。而我估计在第一次见面时外貌是一个重要的因素

Cena, Pune
Certainly...without a doubt!!!

当然重要...毫无疑问

shweta, Jaipur
yes, looks do matter in the initial stages may to start the conversation and all... but 2 have a lasting relationship it definitely takes much much more than just looks....

是的,长相在初始阶段里开始聊天或其他的事情里很重要...但是如果要保持一个长久的关系那么所需要的远远不止外貌了...

Meet, Mumbai
Yes, it matters...

没错,相貌很重要....



vjthedj, india
Obviously looks are 1st thing you look to get attracted or else U will always regret your whole life

很明显当两人见面时,别人的外貌是首先能获得你注意的。如果你的关注点错了的话,你会后悔终生的。

Oais, Chennai
Yes, looks may not be everything but it sure gets the attention of that someone special to start knowing your inner beauty. Everyone can be beautiful, it's just about presentation of yourself, however you look.

当然重要了,外貌不是万能,但它肯定能把那些有意了解你内在美的人的注意力给吸引过来。每个人都是美的,美是因为你所展示形象,你的外貌也起到作用。

Shantanu, Kolkata
While looks do not determine whether you will continue to be in a relationship or not... at least for the normal majority of the population (for whom looks are the only criterion to a relationship should be avoided like the plague!)... but looks do determine to a large extent on whether you will or not fall in love in the first place. Thereafter, it's just a lot of hard work that sustains a relationship unless, that is, you actually find that one person who's just right for you.... and it probably only happens in fairy-tales...

外貌不能决定你会不会继续这段恋爱关系.....至少对于社会主流而言(那些认为外貌是展开恋爱关系的唯一标准的人应该受大家鄙视!)....但是外貌确实很大程度上决定了你是否会一见钟情。在此之后,你得花上大量心思去经营两人的感情,这样你最终就能寻找到真命天子的.....不过这通常只在童话故事里发生....

apoorva gupta, guwahati
yeah it matters till you know the inner beauty of that person

外貌是很重要,除非你了解到了那人的内在美。

Ketu, Mumbai
Yes looks matter in any relations cauz its a social world n people r more into outer beauty not the inner beauty evrythng is fake now-a-dayzz

的确,外貌在每段恋爱中都很重要,因为在这个社会中人们更加关注外在美而不是内在美。所有东西都是会逐渐消逝的,外貌也一样。

s, Kolkata
yes i have faced it

重要,我已经面临过这难题了。

pinki, india
of-course it matters.

外貌当然重要。

Meenal, Pune
Yes it matters a lot

是的,外貌十分重要。

Ashok, Chennai
In this era, most of the relationship starts by the appearance. But continuing a relationship based on understanding each other completely.


在这个时代,大多数的恋情由于外貌而开始,但是恋情的持续则取决于恋人是否完全了解对方。

Malvinder, Australia
You look first...before you know the inner beauty...

在你了解一个人的内在美之前,你首先看的是外貌美不美。

rishi, delhi
because the first person's face you always see when you wake up is not yours , not your parents , but you spouse's.

因为你醒来看到的第一张脸不是你自己的,也不是你父母的,而是你的爱人的。

IR, US
I absolutely agree with the answer given by - ROSE from UK . Rose, you are really genius and very correctly answered the question. I am really impressed.

我完全同意英国的ROSE。Rose,你太天才了,回答的太精彩了。让我感触颇深。

ana, delhi
don't want to be sarcastic,but the answer is YES. why? because if you are a girl and look messy and not maintained then even a girl will not give you a second glance,forget your boyfriend or husband.Also if you are a dude and is dirty and unkempt then not even your friends will give you a glance.good looks or bad looks means not film star like glamor, it means physical and mental healthiness.

我不是想讽刺什么,但是我的回答是:是的。为什么呢?因为如果你是一个脏乱的女孩,即使同是女孩子也不会再看你第二眼,更别提你的男友或者丈夫。同样,如果你是一个蓬头垢面的男孩,那么即使你的朋友们也不会理会你。良好的外表或者差劲的外表不意味着你是否像电影明星一样魅力非凡,而代表着身体和心理的健康。

no (35.0%) 184 Votes

反方

Vyola Gomes, malad
well lets just say, looks is not all that matters, to some extent yes! but then i think if some one has the karizma, is witty and still not very good looking and yet has an appealing personality he will definitely do better that someone who is good looking and lacks that charm... secondly love is blind and that statement proves to be rigt most of the time because ultimately u love a person for who he or she is, physical appearance builds an impression but i think a relation builds from ur inner selfs!

好吧我只想说,长相并不决定一切,在一定程度上是!但后来我觉得如果有人有魅力和机智即使长的不好看但有一个吸引人的个性那他比那些长的好看但缺乏魅力的人好......第二点,爱情是盲目的,这种说法往往被证明是对的因为最终你爱不管是谁,外貌只是建立一个印象但是我认为关系是由你的内在确定的!

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所有的自然生命要保持精神矍铄,热情饱满和身体健康。然而,人类经常由于压力或不注意和不正确的饮食习惯而破坏健康。不要恐慌,自然界还提供了很多办法保持平衡。每个月花4个小时在阿育吠陀医学和吠陀诊疗上会是你健康的关键。你在谷歌上搜索AYURNGO能很好的找到解决办法。

sweetoo.., kolkata
look by heart not by face,what's in a face...heart is true..face is just illusion

看内心而不是外貌,脸有什么好看的,内心才是真的...脸只是错觉

india, india
no

不重要



Kriti, Bhubaneswar
looks was never basis of a stable relationship .Only what costs is the heart

长相绝不会是一段稳定感情的基础。真正决定的还是内心

Anjali, Bangalore
Looks may degrade years after years....But good nature and understanding goes on and on....

长相会随着年龄的增长而消逝...但是好的性格和理解永远不变...

RS, bengaluru
It matters in the begining but it cant help a relation sustain !

它在一开始有用,但是外貌不能维持一段感情

Tarun, Delhi
Looks, though matter in short term relations. For long term relations looks doesn't matter. What it matters is the character of an individual.

外貌虽然在短时间的相处内很重要,但是长期的相处中相貌就无关紧要了。重要的是个人品质

Vishnu, Bangalore
Looks is just a part of life every human being will loose there beauty once they turn to 30 - 40 but your character, behaviour, discipline,etc............. Speaks till the last breathe in your life......... If you have a good loving heart or character it always keeps you beautiful in all the ways.............. "Life is short make it sweet" by earning some good peoples in your life than in looking for people who has beautiful looks.

长相只是每个人一生中的一部分而一旦他们到了3,40岁就会失去他们的美貌除了你的品质品性自制力等等...一直到你死前最后一次呼吸...如果你有一个好的心灵或品质那么这能让你美丽常驻..."人生是短暂的但是它很甜蜜"这会被你在你人生中得到真正好的人而非那些徒有漂亮外表的人所证实。

raj, kolkata
looks or beauty of a person is temporary..its the inner soul or the traits of a person within that matters...

一个人的外貌和漂亮是暂时的...重要的是一个人的内在灵魂或者内里的特点。

ND, Somewhere
Looks is temporary, character is permanent. Choice is yours!

外貌是暂时的,品质是永恒的,看你怎么选!

Neha, Delhi
nope... looks does not matter!!! what really matter are one's characteristics , aspects , views .... one can easily get a stylish , fashionable , trendy chic or dude ...but it's hard to get a person who possess pleasing qualities... in today's world one can change his / her looks completely by spending money but one can't buy goodness ... so acc. to me ' looks can be deceptive' so it doesn't matter at all.

不...长相并不重要!!!真正重要的是一个人的特质,外质,态度...一个人要变得潮流,流行,别致或者花哨很简单...但是一个人很难拥有美好的品质...在现在的时代一个人花点钱就可以改头换面但是不能买到好的品格...对我来说外貌靠不住,所以它一点也不重要

hemant, palia
not at all

一点也不

Dev, france
looks doent matter at all !!!!! if ur love is true ........

长相一点也不重要!!!!因为我们的爱情是真正的爱情....

Lino, New Delhi
It does not matter for me

对我一点也不重要

SP, India
NO, NOT AT ALL

不,一点也不重要

SPal, India
Looks don't matter much in a relationship because it is temporary and will not stay more than a few years. If it is matter of relationship then there are a lot of other stuffs that really matter more than looks. Also,in current days, looks can be changed which costs only a few amount of money but which cannot be changed is charectoristics that can't be exchanged with money.

外貌在相处中不怎么重要因为它是暂时的而且也不能保持多少年。如果它对相处重要的话那么有很多比长相重要的多的东西。而且,在现在,外貌只要花一点钱就可以整了但是不能改变的是一个人的品质,这是钱买不到的

Srikanth, Bangalore
dosen't matter, inner beauty is what matters

不重要,内在美才是重点

xyz, xyz
No looks does not matter.
没有长相也无关紧要

Vidooshi, mumbai
looks never matter... u dont have look compability in a relation...u dont love sum1 cos they look good.. any relation on asthetic value never lasts... its suprising to see soo many people vote for looks.. no doubt the divorse rates are so high..!! be wise.. looks can change but d basic nature of a person nor his character will ever change..!!

外貌是浮云...在交往中我们不需要同等的长相...我们不因为他们长的好看就爱他们...任何由审美观引起的感情不会长久的...这么多人为外貌投票真令人震惊...毫无疑问投票的比例太高了!!!聪明点...外貌可以改变的但是无论一个人的内心还是品质绝不会改变...!!

Sayema, Bangalore
what matters is brain and not looks....stupid and dumb people are irritating no matter how gud they look...

重要的是大脑而不是长相...愚蠢和沉默寡言的人们不管长的怎么样都会在爱情里受挫折

oniya, Aus
"Beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder"

长的漂不漂亮仁者见仁智者见智

Unknown, ALBD
if we are talking about " love at first sight " then it certainly matters but life span of " that matter" is the time until you get to know that person...after that it doesn't matter..

如果我们谈论“一见钟情”那么毫无疑问外貌是重要的但是时间的考验是直到你了解了那个人才能知道...在那之后外貌就不在重要了

Jumli Rina , Itanagar, Arunachal Pradesh
Its all depends on one`s individual perception. For a woman her ugly husband may be the most handsome guy on earth and same for the man to his wife.Look matters in the initial relationship n is momentary but relationship is guaranteed only when beauty lies beyond the look.

这全取决于个人观点。一个女人认为她的老公很丑但也许他确实是一个非常帅的男生而反之亦然。外貌在相处的一开始的短暂时间很重要但是只有当外貌非常完美时才能保证相处的持续。

pinky, pune
No,looks does not matter a lot because the inner beauty is the ever lasting beauty

不,长相一点也没用因为内在美才是永恒的美

Priyanka, Lucknow
looks r not important at all coz In Love dere is sprituality not physical beauty....so havin good heart n sweet Vaani always overcome the gud looks..........

外貌一点也不重要因为爱情的瓶颈是心灵而非外在美...所以有着美好的心灵远远胜过好看的外表

mohan, Bangalore
I do not believe that look will be a priority to have a relationship, whether it could be for choosing a partner or friendship. It is the true love that one has for the person matters.

我并不相信长相是保持一段关系的优先因素,不管是谈对象还是谈朋友。谈对象是真正的爱情也是一个人的终身大事

Chintu, Bangalore
No

不重要

sarah, bangalore
well once you're in love , there's no way out

一旦你陷入了爱情,那么你无路可逃

Divya, Delhi
For a longterm relationship, a person with beautiful soul is more important than a person with awesome appearance but a bad nature.

要保持长期的关系,有着心灵美的人比一个好看却内心恶劣的人重要多了

Meeta, Gurgaon
Looks are fainted with age....its the inner beauty thats eternal.

长相随着年龄而失去光泽...内心的美丽才是永恒的



sathi, b'lore
doesn't matter

不重要

bin, chennai
Absolutely no

一点也不

gouri, germany
Looks woud not matter if feelings of love are true :)

如果感觉爱情是真实的,那么长相没有一点关系

AS, India
To me looks does not matter much. Its d inner beauty and d compatibity wid opponent which play d most vital role in each and every relationship.

在我看来没多大关系。在任何关系中与情敌对抗时,内在美和包容性是至关重要的


Manpan, mumbai
No Looks dont matter...What matters is heart..Bcoz how much ever beautiful you are if you are bad at heart your relationship will break one day..

没有长相根本无所谓...重要的是内心...因为如果你品质恶劣不惯你多好看你与人的关系总有一天会破裂的。

khushbu, browali
ur love should be that strong that look 's ..............Doesn't matter......

如果我们的爱情足够强大,那么长相就无关紧要

haleema , chennai
its not the looks rather one can say its abt the attitude that matters !!

不在乎长相是一个态度问题

jia, pune
no looks does not matter...at certain point looks will go off..but not the internal beauty of person..!!!

没有外貌不要紧...重要的一点是长相会离我们而去...但是一个人的内心美是永恒的!!!

Manoj, Kumar
If it is the looks which matters the most, there would not be any other girls other than aishwarya rai or angelinajolie who have partners

如果长相最重要,那么除了艾西瓦娅·雷和安吉丽娜·朱莉外不会有任何女孩子能有搭档了。

Sunil, Bangalore
Nope, It doesn't make a much difference. Beautiful face can't replace beautiful heart, so inner beauty is more important.

不,它不会有太大的区别。漂亮的脸蛋不能代替美好的心灵,所以内心美更加重要

such, mumbai
Looks doesn't matters.... any one will look beautiful with smile on face happyness in soul....

长相并不重要。。。任何一个发自内心深处的幸福微笑都能让这人看起来美丽

Palani, Bangalore
Most beautiful Indian Heroins, all been divorced many times. What does this say ? Face Beauty disappears after one night stand, AFTER its only Inner Beauty Beauty means the quality of skin and being healthy. What's the point being beauty and having a hole in the heart or having diseases...? Indian Girls are definately Morans, they fall only for beauty and then regret in life. They don't learn lessons from others life.

最美丽的印度人Heroins离过很多次婚了。这意味着什么呢?在一夜情后漂亮的脸蛋就不重要了,之后的内在美指的是皮肤和身体健康。关键在于是健康和心灵是否美还是是否有疾病?印度的女孩完全是白痴,她们只专注于变得漂亮而在以后的人生中后悔。她们不去吸取别人的人生经验。

pinki, delhi
No,looks does not matter a lot because the inner beauty is the ever lasting beauty which never perishes but the outer appearance may perish .You may be attracted by
appearance for time being but to live a successful married life or for a friendship one must sext by matching the person's understanding.

不,长相一点也不重要因为内在美是永远持久的美丽而外貌可能随时间流逝而失去美丽。你可能被暂时的外貌美丽所吸引,但保持一个成功的婚姻生活或友谊,必须由遇上对的人,能相互理解而确定。

SweetGirl, USA
Personal liking, for me it does not matter... Level of comfort is important

个人喜好,对我来说并不重要...重要的是舒适程度

mahesh, hyd
it dont matter

它不重要

dheeru chaurasiya, bihar
its ok

还不错

Ravi, Delhi
No i dont think so bcoz at end of the day it the behaviour that matters most. Looks can be deceiving.

不我不认为外貌重要因为白天结束后的运动那才是最重要的。长相可以欺骗人。

Raima, Mysore
I don't believe looks matters in a relationship.

我不认为相貌在人们中的关系中有什么用

Ami, Leeds
I'm a pretty girl, an intelligent graduated med student who happens to be a pretty girl but no one sees my intelligence, only how I look. I have to work harder to prove myself to be more than just a pretty face. My second thought on this is; I have dated attractive men, all of whom have been boring, lazy and some have been horrible people on the inside. I'm now dating a man of average attractiveness, he holds my attention, makes me very happy and is totally amazing. Looks shouldn't matter and they don't matter if you don't want them to.

我是一个漂亮的姑娘,一个有才干的医学毕业生同时也是一个漂亮的女孩,但没有人看到我的才智,而只在乎我长的怎么样。我必须加倍努力才能证明自己不仅仅有一个漂亮的脸蛋,我认为这是次要的。我和迷人的小正太约会过,他们全都很无聊,懒惰而且里面有的很令人讨厌。我现在和一个普通的男生约会,他能吸引我,给我一些惊喜。长相不应该重要而当你们无视他们的时候他们并不重要。 

Ami, Uk
I'm a pretty girl, an intelligent graduated med student who happens to be a pretty girl but no one sees my intelligence, only how I look. I have to work harder to prove myself to be more than just a pretty face. My second thought on this is; I have dated attractive men, all of whom have been boring, lazy and some have been horrible people on the inside. I'm now dating a man of average attractiveness, he holds my attention, makes me very happy and is totally amazing. Looks shouldn't matter and they don't matter if you don't want them to.

我是一个漂亮的姑娘,一个有才干的医学毕业生同时也是一个漂亮的女孩,但没有人看到我的才智,而只在乎我长的怎么样。我必须加倍努力才能证明自己不仅仅有一个漂亮的脸蛋,我认为这是次要的。我和迷人的小正太约会过,他们全都很无聊,懒惰而且里面有的很令人讨厌。我现在和一个普通的男生约会,他能吸引我,给我一些惊喜。长相不应该重要而当你们无视他们的时候他们并不重要。 (这人估计抽了,手快发了2次)

vsivaramakrishna, chennai
initally, it may but as things goes on ,values carry a major role and leads to safe end(N - Turns), than looks to dead end(U-turns) .

一开始,长相也许挺重要的,但是随着时间发展,价值观起到了决定性的作用



deep, mumbai
no,

不。

Tri, Hyd
looks 5%, smartness 10%, behavior 5%, Money 80% thats all it matters

相貌5%,机智10%,行为举止5%,钱80%,这就是恋爱中的重要成分。

Jatin, Pune
looks are not the part of the relalionship.... if somebody is good by his/her character then nothing matters........

相貌并不是恋爱中的一部分...如果一个人很棒是因为他的品行很好,那就没问题了。


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