女性该如何谈判？讨好型人格导致自我麻痹，不如“拥抱”自己的阴暗面

have the vision of future

consult your resentment

grow up; what you need

specify what you want; you don't say what you want

have the case for that

make a plan, strategy, articulate argument, courage to put that forward

overcome your hesitancy to engage in conflict

negotiation and conflict are somewhat indistinguishable

courageously and truthly