TED演讲：如何学会别把事都往心里去？

1. don't take it personally.别往心里去。
2. the only thing you get is ...你得到的只是
3. it drains my energe 让我筋疲力尽
4. every coin have two sides: heads or tails硬币有两面：正面和反面。
5. ring a bell 有印象吗
6. have no clue 不知道，没有线索
7. be rooted in 源自
8. touch a raw nerve 戳到...痛处

Strategies

1. it is not about me. From me to we.
2. give yourself empathy. Speak up.
3. You will always keep your value, no matter other people say.