【Podcast】｜宝藏英文播客｜给20多岁的你-为什么我们的友谊会被淘汰？｜T

1.outgrow 0:59

to no longer do or enjoy something that you used to do, because you have grown older and changed

what I want to explore today is that experience of outgrowing your friends, of outgrowing relationships.

2.fizzle 3:51

Fizzle out

To gradually stop happening, especially because people become less interested

Sometimes friendship need to fizzle an end for you to find new versions of yourself.

3.solitude 4:42

when you are alone, especially when this is what you enjoy 

Find the value of solitude.

4.make a trade off 交易 missing out on something when you choose one alternative over another

5.traumatic 18:05

a traumatic experience is so shocking and upsetting that it affects you for a long time

it’s kind of like a slow burnout of the relationship rather than a relationship breakup which is often you know violate and a traumatic departure of a friend from our lives due to big falling out.

6.stale 22:12

1. bread or cake that is stale is no longer fresh or good to eat

French bread goes stale (=becomes stale) very quickly.

2. not interesting or exciting anymore

Go on stale

7.facilitate 24:58

to make it easier for a process or activity to happen

these repeated experiences facilitate nerve growth and connections between our synapses(the place where nerve cells meet, especially in the brain).

8.lash out 25:50

1. to suddenly speak angrily to someone or criticize someone angrily

2. to try to hit someone with a series of violent uncontrolled movements