【龙腾网】生活中没有野心的人会怎样？
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What will happen to people who have no ambition in life?
生活中没有野心的人会怎样？
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However, after a while of futile attempts, reality struck me and I realized that with both my parents ageing, I had to do something for the income in the family (dad’s retired, mom’s a housewife).
So, I started working small jobs to earn money. Those while are enough to cover the family expense, cannot be written to much benefit on a CV.
I had to move back to my home country, where nobody cares for my degrees since think it’s inferior.
3–4 years back, I had a lot of plans and ambitions. Now, I have nothing.
I myself am fed up of trying. It’s not that I have failed (maybe I have, however), it’s just that I don’t care about anything anymore.
不过，经过一段时间的尝试后，现实惊醒了我，我意识到随着我父母的老龄化，为了增加家庭收入，我必须做点什么（爸爸退休了，妈妈是家庭主妇）。
所以，我开始打零工来挣钱。这些虽然足以支付家庭开支，但不能写在简历上，不能给我的简历增光添彩。
最终我不得不回我自己的国家，在那里没有人关心我的学位，因为他们不看重这个。3至4年前，我尚有很多计划和抱负。现在，却一无所有。
我自己也厌倦了尝试。不是因为我失败了，而是我不再在乎任何事情。
Pedro Mendes de Araujo
I believe everybody, to some degree, has ambitions of some sort. What changes from person to person, is that while some have ambitions that include career, education, or monetary success, others have different ones, which are adjusted to what they have already gone through in life. But this, as a matter of fact, is a very complex question because what you're asking does not concern ambitions only, but the whole idea of human future, perceived by the human mind.
A person might be afraid to try new things; hence they won't be much ambitious. A person might think they're entitled to failure; hence they won't give their ambitions a try, and won't be much ambitious. A person might think that they've done enough for someone their age, and decide to retire/settle, and won't be much ambitious.
But be careful, because a person's ambitions aren't easily perceived by an outside observer. They are exclusive and private to each and every person. It's one of the innate qualities of the human being; to dream. You might not see much from someone who works from 9 to 5 in a store, but who knows? Maybe they dream of becoming an artist, maybe, they are practicing an instrument when they are not working hard to earn their living; maybe they have ambitions, just like you, or even higher than you. Many people like to hide their ambitions, which is often common among people with low self-esteem, but do not be mistaken; even such people have dreams, ambitions and desires for their future, even if they won't share them with you. That's their personal secret.
我相信每个人，在某种程度上，都有某种野心。不过野心也是因人而异的，有些人的雄心指事业、教育或金钱上的成功，但另一些人的雄心壮志却有所不同，这些野心是根据他们在生活中的经历的来调整的。事实上，这是一个非常复杂的问题，因为你所问的不仅仅是雄心壮志，而是人类对未来的整体感知。
一个害怕尝试新事物的人，就不会有太大的野心。一个人如果认为自己有资格失败，他们也就不会有太大的雄心壮志，更不会为了自己的雄心壮志去努力，。一个人如果认为他们已经为同龄人做了足够多的工作，所以决定退休然后定居，这类人同样不会抱有太大的雄心壮志。
但要注意，外人是不容易察觉他人的野心的。野心对每个人而言都是专属的。做梦这是人类与生俱来的一个特质。你从一个在商店里朝九晚五工作的人身上很可能看不到野心，但谁知道呢？也许他们梦想是成为一名艺术家，也许，他们会在不需要努力谋生的情况下练习乐器；也许他们就像你一样有野心，甚至比你的野心还要大。很多人喜欢隐藏自己的雄心壮志，这在自卑的人中很常见。即使他们不和你分享，这样的人也是有梦想、抱负和对未来的渴望的，这是他们的个人秘密。
Lana Shapiro, OPP Certified MBTI Coach (2007-present)
It depends what you mean by “no ambition”…
There are couple people that I can think of whom I know who have “no ambition” in a classical understanding of this term. They are always relaxed, calm, thinking how to manage things in such a way that it would take the least possible effort. They are doing relatively well in their careers but not because they proactively seek opportunities on the contrary they seem quite inert, but they are reliable, and they found their niche and that made them unique specialists. They turn down offers with a higher salary and higher responsibility level. Because they value life balance. All their promotions in the start of their career triggered some resistance in them, they worryied they would loose their freedom. But they ended up just fine I would say. Life treated them kind. Of course they are smart and educated. Both tolerant with people not extraverts, but friendly. Their life motto “enjoy”. And they followed their motto. They picked for their career something they really enjoy doing and they are happy at work.
Were they ambitious? Somebody would say like not career ambitious. But their primary goal was balance, living in harmony with themselves and people and they were consistent with that goal and they reached it, and that what happened to them due to lack of career ambition. They made their choices based on their core values and are happy with their lives despite some missed career opportunities.
But no ambition at all is different. I think they may feel lost, may feel confused and not grounded.
这要看你说的“没有野心”到底是什么意思。
我想到了我认识的几个人，他们是“没有野心”的典型代表。他们非常放松，冷静，思考如何花最少的精力来管理事情。他们在自己的职业生涯中表现相对较好，但这些成绩并不是因为他们积极主动地寻找机会而获得的，相反，他们似乎相当迟钝，但他们是可靠的，他们找准了自己的定位，从而成为独一无二的专家。他们拒绝更高薪水和承担更大责任的工作。因为他们更加重视生活的平衡。他们会有意放弃职业生涯开始时的晋升机会，他们担心会失去自由。但我想说的是，他们的结局很好。生活对他们也很好。他们很聪明，受过教育。对人非常宽容和友好。他们的人生座右铭是“享受”。他们遵循自己的座右铭。他们选择了他们真正喜欢做的事情来当做自己的职业，他们工作也很快乐。
他们有雄心壮志吗？有人会说他们看起来在事业上没有野心。但他们的首要目标是平衡，与同事和谐相处，他们的行为时刻与这个目标保持一致，并且他们实现了这个目标，因为他们事业上没有野心，所以这一切在他们身上都是自然而然发生的。他们根据自己的核心价值观做出选择，尽管错过了一些发展机会，但他们对自己的生活感到满意。但是如果一点野心都没有又要另当别论了，我认为那样就可能会感到失落，困惑和不踏实。
Adam C-
They will die full of regrets and perhaps with victim mentality. I think being ambitious it’s different from being motivated. It’s a habit that you have to develop. But you have to understand these five core principles:
1- Life is NOT EASY OR FAIR. And do not think for a second you’re entitled to something. We always try our best but don’t do our best. Do NOT fall into victim mentality.
2-Find your IDENTITY. know who you are NOT. The easiest way to figure out who you are is to define yourself by who you are not.
3- Get rid of excess. Decrease your options and you will face what is important to you.
4-Take calculated Risks. You see “nothing in life is worthwhile unless you take risks”. You have to start trusting and believing in yourself. If you don’t believe in you, no one will.
5- You must Fail. I have to yet meet a person who has learned from his/her success. You learn and grow by failing. It’s important to fail in life. Otherwise you will never grow. You must understand failure is part of your success.
Apply all these principles to answer these two questions if you want to take the first step towards an ambitious life. WHAT IS SUCCESS TO YOU? WHAT IS IMPORTANT TO YOU IN LIFE?
Good luck.
他们会充满遗憾，也许还会有受害者的心理。我认为有野心和被激励是不同的。这是你必须养成的习惯。你必须了解以下五个核心原则：
1、生活并不容易，也不公平。别以为你有资格得到什么。我们总是尽力而为，并没有做到最好，也不要陷入受害者的心态。
2、准确给自己定位，了解你不是哪种人。找出你是怎么样一个人的最简单的方法就是根据你不是谁来定义自己。
3、给生活做减法。减少你的选择，你就会知道对你来说什么是重要的事情。
4、承担预计好的风险。你会知道“除非你冒险，否则生命中没有什么是值得的”。你必须自信起来。如果你不相信你自己，那么没有人还会相信你。
5、你必须失败。我还没有遇到过从自己的成功事情中能吸取教训的人。你需要通过失败来学习和成长。人生中经历失败是很重要的。否则你永远不会成长。你必须明白失败是成功的一部分。
如果你想像有野心的人生迈出第一步，请运用以上这些原则来回答这两个问题。成功对你来说是什么？生活中什么对你很重要？
祝你好运。
Elizabeth Rebolledo, School of Life at The Universe (1967-present)
Sadly, there are a lot of people that have no ambition. I feel like some people just don't give life too much thought and I say this because prior to 6 years ago, I had no real ambition.
Upon receiving many useful life tips and a spiritual awakening everything about me changed, whereas prior to this experience, I had no clue about a lot of things. I was merely existing and didn't really think about the huge world out there. I discovered talents I never knew I had and also enhanced the ones I did have.
People that have no ambitions will inevitably live very bland unexciting lives…a total waste, but to each his own.
可悲的是，有很多人是没有雄心壮志。我觉得有些人没有好好思考生活的意义，我这么说是因为在6年前，我就没有真正的雄心壮志。
在学习了许多可用的生活技巧并经历了一次精神觉醒后，我改变了，而在此之前，我对很多事情都一无所知。我只是活着，并没有真正去想外面的世界是什么样。后来我发现了我以前从来没有发现过的才能，同时也增强了我本来就有的才华。
没有雄心壮志的人将不可避免地过着平淡无奇的生活，这完全是对生命的一种浪费，对每个人来说人生都是自己的。
Rajesh Gopinathan, Personal interest specifically in human behaviour in Organisational setup
A thoughtless mind and ambitionless existence does not exist in humans since it is Godly.
As all of have thoughts , though of different nature in every mind , similarly the nature of ambition is different for different people.
My wife's grand father of 97 yrs is growing weaker everyday , can't hear or see properly, does not have much control over his bodily functions, cannot eat food without help but once when he was in slightly better shape some one asked him what he wants , he said he wants to live past 100. That is his ambition.
My kids ambition is be able to convince us to allow him to play till late everyday , our ambition at the same time is to make him study more so that he gets straight A . My parent's ambition few years back was to see their grand child, now they want to see him grow and spend more and more time with him.
We all have ambitions, the correct question will be; WHAT ?
在人类中不存在一个没有意识或者没有野心的人。
每个人都有自己的思想，因为每个人的思想本质不同，所以野心的定义也是因人而异的。
我妻子97岁的祖父身体越来越虚弱，听不见声音也看不清楚东西，不能控制他的身体机能，不能在没有帮助的情况下进食。但是有一次，当他身体稍微好一点的时候，有人问他想要什么，他说他想活到100岁以上。这就是他的野心。
我的孩子们的雄心壮志是能够说服我们允许他每天玩到很晚，但我们的目标是让他多学习，这样他的学习就能得A。我父母几年前的野心是要看到他们的孙女出生，现在他们想看到他长大，并期待能够花越来越多的时间来陪伴他们。
我们都有野心，正确的问法应该是：（我们有）什么样的野心？
Timothy Marc Lechowicz, 42 years reading and studying random things.
It really depends on how you define "ambition." Not all people want to be CEOs, and there's nothing wrong with that. For someone, just being able to survive day to day is sufficient. In reality, that's all that's required for someone to be considered "successful."
You shouldn't define people by your worldview. You might believe that ambition means "I want to eventually own my own business." And that's a great ambition in life. But since not everyone else wants to own their own business, it's unfair of you to suggest they lack ambition. It's simply that they define ambition differently than you do.
这取决于你如何定义“雄心壮志”。不是所有人都想当CEO，这也是对的。通常对人来说，只要活下去就可以了。事实上，这可能也是一个人心中对成功的定义。
你不应该用你的世界观来定义别人。你可能会觉得雄心壮志意味着“我想有自己的企业”，把这看做人生中的雄心壮志。但是，既然不是每个人都想拥有自己的企业，你说他们缺乏雄心壮志就是不公平的。只是他们对野心的定义与你不同。
Nutan S
It is sad to come across such people in life. I have come across a few so I understand what is in their heads.
It is definitely a serious case, the person doesnt value herself or himself. They don't realize that life is so beautiful. Pass on some positivity to her\\\\\\\\him. Be considerate and compassionate to the person.
It is very clear the person is either very depressed or confused. She\\\\\\\\he has no directions on what to do next in life, be a good friend and reading helps a lot. It opens minds.
Physical activities increases happy hormones in the body, and you start looking at positive things of life.
If it is a very severe case of depression, they need some treatment - counseling or medication or the best is yoga and meditation or spirituality where they can see their own souls and start loving themselves, they will find a meaning or purpose of their lives.
在生活中遇到这样的人是很悲哀的。我遇到过一些这样的人，所以我明白他们的想法。
以下就是非常典型的案例，某某不重视自己，他们没有意识到生活是如此美好。需要向他传递一些积极的信息：对人要体贴，富有同情心。
很明显，这个人不是很沮丧就是很困惑。他对人生下一步该做什么没有方向，需要成为一个他的好朋友，让他们知道阅读对自身很有帮助，能够开阔自身的眼界；
让他们知道坚持体育锻炼可以增加体内让人快乐的荷尔蒙，这样就会开始关注生活中积极的东西。
如果是非常严重的抑郁症患者，他们需要进行一些治疗，看医生或药物治疗，最好的方式是瑜伽和冥想或灵性活动，在那里他们可以看到自己的灵魂并开始爱自己，他们会找到他们生活的意义或目的。
Ruth Binder, I'm an observer of myself and others
It all depends on the experiences that said person has and how they choose regarding them. There is absolutely no way to say what will happen to a person with no ambition. This person could end up happier or in touch with more joy than the person with tons of ambition. It's all in the choices, which may or may not have anything to do with ambition.
这完全取决于讨论的那个人的人生经历，以及他们自己的选择。对于一个没有野心的人来说，绝对没有办法预料会发生什么。与雄心勃勃的人相比，这个人最终可能会更快乐，或者接触到更多的快乐。一切都是自己选的，这可能与雄心壮志有关系，也可能没有任何关系。
Kim Hoole, former Retired at Telecomunications Engineer (1981-2002)
You have to see a future for yourself to want to chase it sum dont see it its depression I've been there it's a hole thats hard to climb out of and hard for someone thats never been there to imagine very empty very foreboding and if the person for a moment realises where there at very scary what happens to these people has a lot to do with how much support they get and not many people want to be around them because there depressing so give what you can when you can and you'll be a better person for that
你必须要规划一个未来，你自己想要为之奋斗的未来，而不能一直被负能量包围，我曾经困在那个境地，就像一个深渊，而对于一个从未经历过那些的人来说，很难想象，它是非常空洞的，而且有不祥的预感。如果一个人意识到他们的遭遇与他们得到多少支持有很大关系，而如果身上只有负能量的话，是没有多少人想在他们身边的，所以要尽你所能去做好事情，为此你会成为一个更好的人。
Ray Walker, Sr. Software Architect (2004-present)
I dislike ambition—defined as chasing outwardly measurable success—but not necessarily ambitious people. That is to say, I don’t like what ambition encourages otherwise good people to do in the name of ubiquitous approval and validation. Effort is its own reward. Effort is a form of ambition, too, but it’s the need for public approval that ruins more than it helps. It is that kind of ambition I deplore and will not engage in. (That is how one can be immune to any financial scam. Can’t take the bait if you’re not interested in financial reward, which I am not.)
I’m more in agreement with Richard Feynman on this point: “The prize is the pleasure of finding a thing out, the kick in the discovery— those are the real things. The honors are unreal to me. I don’t believe in honors.”
我不喜欢定义为追求可衡量的成功为雄心壮志，但我不是不喜欢有雄心壮志的人。就是说，我不喜欢定义为优秀的人为了获得认可才去做一件事情的雄心壮志。努力本身就是雄心壮志的一种形式，但获得公众认可所需要的雄心壮志破坏了这一切。我为此感到遗憾，也不会追求这些。这可以让人免受任何金融骗局侵害。如果您对财务奖励不感兴趣，就不会上钩，我对这些是不敢兴趣的。
在这一点上，我更同意理查德·费曼的观点：“发现事物的乐趣，发现过程中的乐趣才是真正的收获，这些都是真实的东西。 荣誉对我来说是不真实的。 我不相信荣誉。”
Virali Modi, Life happens when you're busy making plans.
No. I find people without ambition quite boring. If you don't have a goal you're working towards, life seems extremely bland.
Life is all about the adventure, challenges, despair, and triumph. If you don't have a crazy ambition or a goal to look forward to, your life is going to be meaningless, according to me.
It's always healthy to be ambitious, it keeps you alive.
我发现没有野心的人很无聊。如果你的生活没有目标，生活就很平淡。
生活就是经历冒险，挑战，绝望和胜利的过程。在我看来，如果您不是野心勃勃或没有期望的目标，那么您的生活将变得毫无意义。
拥有雄心壮志是一种非常健康的状态，它意味着你在好好活着。
