内向者如何提升吸引力？—— 做好自己
"IN A CULTURE THAT PRAISES THE "EXTROVERT IDEAL,” INTROVERTS ARE DRAMATICALLY UNDERVALUED — AND BECAUSE OF THIS, SOCIETY IS LOSING OUT."
——SUSAN CAIN
“在一个推崇‘外向者理想’的文化中，内向者的价值被严重低估了——正因为如此，社会正在失去优势。”
——苏珊·该隐
THE POWER OF INTROVERTS IN A WORLD THAT CAN'T STOP TALKING .
《内向性格的竞争力：发挥你的本来优势》
内向型人身上非常吸引人的5个特质：
INTROVERTS ARE ATTRACTIVE
BECAUSE THEY MAKE YOU WORK
FOR THEIR ATTENTION"
BECAUSE INTROVERTS PREFER THEIR INNER WORLD TO THEIR EXTERNAL ONE. THEY OFTEN PROCESS THINGS INTERNALLY. THEY KEEP THEIR THOUGHTS AND FEELINGS TO THEMSELVES AND ONLY SHARE IT WITH OTHERS WHEN THEY'RE READY.
因为内向的人更喜欢他们的内心世界而不是外部世界。他们经常在内心处理事情。他们把自己的想法和感受藏在心里，只有在准备好了的时候才会和别人分享。
他们的强烈自主意识和自给自足的精神，对隐私的渴望，使他们更加独立。
他们不需要指望其他人为他们做决定
内向者对社会认可的需求较少
IT'S THIS DESIRE FOR
PERSONALVALIDATION OVERSOCIALVALIDATION THAT MAKES THEM MORE AUTHENTIC THAN MOST.
这是一种渴望个人认可超过社会认可，这让他们比大多数人更真实。
内向者选择以他们的道德，激情和目标为导向，而不是以他人的意见和期望为导向
