全英— 聊聊“佔有慾”

这份暑期工作把我累垮了。

This summer job has drained me.

我下午睡得太沉了，刚醒过来。

My afternoon naps have been so deep I just woke up.

占有欲是一种强烈而过度的想要拥有和控制另一个人或物体的欲望。

Possessiveness is a strong and excessive desire to own and control another person or object.

占有欲的主要表现有:

The main manifestations of possessiveness are:

1.不愿意分享自己拥有的东西，包括宠物、配偶、孩子等。

Unwillingness to share what one "possesses", including pets, spouses, children, etc.

2.把被占有的人或物完全置于自己的控制之下。

Putting the "possessed" person or thing completely under one's control.

3.当被占有的人寻求自主和独立时，感到不安全和受到威胁。

Feeling insecure and threatened when the "possessed" person seeks autonomy and independence.

4.当“被占有”的对象失去控制时，强烈的不满和负面情绪。

Strong dissatisfaction and negative emotions when the "possessed" object gets out of control.

5.过度的嫉妒、怀疑等负面情绪。

Excessive jealousy, suspicion and other negative feelings.

如果占有欲持续很长时间，可能会导致:

If possessiveness persists for a long time, it can cause:

-与他人疏远

- Estrangement from others

-婚姻冲突

- Marital conflict

-亲密关系破裂

- Breakdown of intimate relationships

-家庭问题

- Family problems

充分尊重和信任他人，让他们独立自主，是减少占有欲的好方法。

Fully respecting and trusting others, and giving them independence and autonomy, are good ways to reduce possessiveness.

“占有欲”的一般英语说法是 possessiveness。下面是一些例句:

He suffers from high levels of possessiveness towards his property. 

他对财产抱有高度占有欲。

The mother has some possessiveness issues regarding her son and wants to control him.   

那位母亲对她的儿子存在占有欲,想要控制他。 

Excessive possessiveness is harmful in romantic relationships.

过度的占有欲对情侣之间的关系是有害

Some dogs show extreme possessiveness towards their owners and toys.   

有些狗对主人和玩具表现出极端的占有欲。