这段英语访谈，你听懂了多少呢？

We have certain conditioned ideas about what a man is,about what a woman is, about what life is. 

conditioned受制约的，习惯于的

What happens if you couldn't take any of that for granted?

And you actually had to really be in the moment and wonder, is anything that I'm seeing right now, what i think it is or what I've been let to think it is.